I don't like eating in front of people

I don't like eating in front of people. It makes me really self conscious- I've even avoided social situations because of it. What's frustrating is that everyone calls me "anorexic", while I am not and never have been.
Is this normal, or is it me?

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Based on 79 votes (57 yes)
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  • Foxie913

    I don't like eating in front of people either.
    You can look it up online and it will tell you that it's actually a symptom of social anxiety.

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  • Destinee

    I'm the same way. I used to have to duck and take a bite, or turn my head and look away.

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  • chocolate_123

    That is a sign of an eating disorder maybe you want to talk to someone about it like a counillor

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  • januarycurse

    if you're in a restaurant or cafeteria then other people will be eating too. it's not like they will judge you for eating. but I agree that in other places it can seem awkward.

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  • oceanbreez

    I hate to eat in front of other people. Always have. But I do do it when I have too. Good luck with that.

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  • aubreybradt

    i do that too

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  • hotchickie81

    I used to be like that too.

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  • mtnw

    i used to be like that too. i got over it though. eat something in front of the mirror to see if you eat ok. if so, then try eating just a little when you are with others. see how it goes.

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  • BrightEyes

    I use to have that problem. Only, it was that I didn't like to eat in front of boys. I was afraid they'd think I chew funny or something but since being with my current boyfriend for a year and a half, I have gotten over it completely.

    Just no that you eat no differently than other people. No one is even going to notice. Because of what you said, they may only say, "Hey! You're eating!"

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    • BrightEyes

      *know

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  • Why does eating in the presence of others make you feel self-conscious?

    If it's because you think people are judging you because they think you shouldn't be eating, then you might want to consider asking your parents or doctor for some help. People wouldn't keep calling you "anorexic" if they didn't think you have a problem.

    If it's because you are over-weight or obese, then you need to find better dinner companions.

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