I don't know why my best friend and i are even friends, iin?

Well first of all i should say you should be thankful ateast to have a friend, always have a look at others life and value stuff which they don't have but you do. It also includes friends, family and other relations.

And second thing after reading all your replies i think not everyone could be wrong in understanding the way you described. Your friend is sweet and kind and cute but the way you described it made everybody think that you are dominant which you are not i suppose and would just like to say appreciate her for who she is (if you don't know how it feels when someone ignores you for what you are), understand her as you already know every human is different. Communicate more share your lives it will be fun for both to exchange your worlds.

Thank you and everyone in here were and are here to help you out but just describe exactly what is on your mind if people misunderstand being aggressive won't take you anywhere.

And say hello to your friend on my behalf i think we don't have much people like her left on this planet atleast.

It's because of how you phrased it. The problem is that ^ this, I believe completely, but it's SO different from the way you worded it in the original post :/

I don't think people are judging you specifically, it's just that the information we got (i.e. the way you typed it, the words you used) made it *seem* like you were intentionally and quite unashamedly belittling her. Communication online is difficult sometimes, and is most likely to blame here.

If what you say is the case... the more irritated you get when you unintentionally offend or belittle her, the more she is going to feel awful - because if she truly is sensitive, and a good friend, she probably hates making you feel unhappy. I used to be very similar. I would suggest subtly trying to build her up and project a positive mood and energy around her, and see if this changes her behaviors. It may be that if she believes she is making you happy (based on how you act) that she will change what she's doing and genuinely start making you happy again.

Negativity snowballs, getting bigger and building up when it bounces back and forth between two people. So does positivity. Start putting that kind of energy into your interaction with her just to see what it does, like a little test-run :)

Well I didn't say that you weren't worried about her in the first place. I said it seems like it.

Just talk to her thats the grown up thing to do. If she still continues it tell her that you don't want to be friends with her anymore if she doesn't change that because it hurts you. It ridiculous to avoid someone and not talk about it. If she cares about you that much she'll change that and if you care about her that much you say something about it.

Plus don't say your not sensitive because this obviously hurts you, nothing wrong with that. just say something, you don't deserve a friend like that if she doesn't do anything about it and she doesn't deserve you if you don't explain whats going on.