I don't know why...

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I don't know why but... I have had constant dreams about my ex. I clearly am over him. We're just friends now. We had a pretty much clean break-up. We talk like normal friends, but I have kept on dreaming about him. We broke up last year by the way. Okay,anyway, in one of my dreams, he saved me from some people trying to kidnap me. In another dream, he was teaching me basketball like before and he helped me shoot some hoops in the dream. In another one, he drove me in his car. I kept thinking that it was normal at first because he and I knew everything about each other. He's the only one of my EXs who is the closest to me. But then, my dreams now have been having him in it. He's in every dream of mine. I don't get it. I have no more feelings for him but why do I kept on dreaming about him? I also have a dream that I married someone else and he was not the person. Is it normal to constantly dream about your ex?

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    There is a pattern in the dreams that makes me think that you somewhere feel like you need him or someone like him. Dreams are funny aren't they?

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  • Adrianna.(:
    11 years ago

    It's totaly normal maybe you think your over him but somewhere deep inside your not but then again you could be over him but like you said y'all were very close and after that all ends you need something els to help you get on with your life and dreaming is a very comforting thing!

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  • squirrelgirl
    12 years ago

    Even though you believe you are over him, you actually aren't on a subconscious level. After my very close friendship with the love of my life ended, I had dreams about them almost continuously for 6 years afterwards. I came to the conclusion that it's just your subconscious's way of trying to comfort you because it knows that you will never have that closeness again in reality, but in dreams anything is possible.

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    • ilurvemyfriends
      12 years ago

      Really? Thanks. I think I'm going to think everything over again.

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