I don't know what to think of this?

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OK I will try to state the back story quickly. Couple I was friends with in college had a very rocky relationship for a long time, most of the time I tried to be supportive and keep them together. Towards the fairly obvious end of their relationship the girl went home for a semester to take care of family issues while her boyfriend stayed. I occasionally texted with her and she would tell me about her relationship troubles, which was no surprise, what was a surprise was that when I informed her that I broke up with my girlfriend she very aggressively started flirting with me. At first I thought it was just my imagination but when I showed the texts to a friend, they had no doubt she was flirting with me. I was hesitant to reciprocate because that would mean betraying her boyfriend but after she broke up with him I asked her out. From there things turned to shit. She kept insisting, she needed time, since she had another guy (her boss) who was interested, and even when she had clearly made her decision, I had to almost force her to turn me down because she was so hesitant to give any kind of answer. Her leading me on annoyed me but being turned down didn't, apparently however the fact that I was fine with her turning me down wasn't fine with her. She got angry and tried starting fights and insulting me. After a few days of her shit, things continued escalating until I told her off, and she said she never wanted to hear from me again. I deleted her off my Facebook friend's list and deleted her contact info.

After all this shit I was happy to just be done with it, and I haven't hardly thought about it since. But today I got a Facebook friend request from her. IT was so unexpected... I don't even know what to think of it.

is it normal normal for her to send a friend request after all this shit

btw I haven't heard anything from her since the shit went down which was about 2 months ago.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Block her, she's crazy.

    Next time when you're friends with a couple, talk to the guy too and get both sides of the story so you know what you're dealing with.

    Also, I get hormones are high and the hunt for ass is strong, but you can't just hop into relationships with anyone just because they show you a little attention, that's how people get stuck with crazy bitches. Date smarter.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    She sounds like a toxic person! Block her.

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  • Leonard_Hatred
    7 years ago

    Normal for psycho chicks like her. I have been through almost the exact same situation with a couple that I knew that broke up. Same deal as you.

    Same bullshit flirtation and same bullshit cock teasing. No longer in contact with either of them. If my experience is anything to go by probably best you ignore her as she will repeat the same crap.

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  • Mario25
    7 years ago

    People are emotionally confused during such ups and downs in their relationship. It's the same with her. You did the right thing by calling her off because it was a trouble for you. She sent you a requestrequest it may mean that she has straightened hersellf and feels guilty for causing trouble and she might want to be Fla friend again.
    Before you accept it make sure you are ready to call it off again if she starts flirting with you or behaves unnaturally.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Maybe she wants to add you to slag you off on face book. People think they are big and awesome of face book.

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