I don't know what to do with my life anymore because of my penis looks

50% Normal
13 Comments

Its horrible being different like this, in such a private way. For so long my anxiety and depression about my circ has plagued me. I feel as though I cant live the life I was supposed to live, I don't have the confidence I should have. My circumcision is a very bad example, too much skin taken away resulting in erections that can sometimes be uncomfortable, scrotum skin almost half way up my shaft, very bad scarring, skin bridges, some lumpiness and the most uneven cut I've ever seen. WHY? did this have to be me. It's pretty hard being in school with a very bad circumcision Its affected my mentality quite a lot am always shy, as I said I have huge amounts of anxiety about it and constantly get depressed, I cant remember the last day I didn't get depressed. I get depressed about how it's affected the decisions I've made in the past i don' have any single confidence, girls I should have gone further with, things I should have done but didn't at the time because I was too self aware and ashamed with very low self esteem. I can also beat myself up quite a lot, I have a negative self-image because of this. I feel whatever I achieve and do I will never be as good as I should be because I have a horrible circumcision. It massively affects my motivation and enjoyment of life. I'm literally struggling at school because I get so depressed about this. I am not who I was supposed to be I know I should not live my life depressed like this but it's hard when you feel like half the man you were supposed to be, my feelings seem so honest...like its not me being stupid but I should generally be this upset and anxious about this

i don't know if its okay here so that i can post some images of it

Voting Results
50% Normal
Based on 8 votes (4 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 13 )
  • 1badassog&AA
    9 years ago

    Talk to a plastic surgeon bro and see what they can do. I can't stand doctors myself but it sounds like you may need to. As for those who bashed our bro here think about it as if it were you. ANYTHING that lowers self esteem, testosterone, or make you ashamed of yourself especially in the masculinity dept. could easily have long term, and long ranging adverse effects. In countries like India that surgery would cost much less too bro so if that's what you decide shop around for the hospital & surgeon. I too have an ugly dick but I think it may be because for the 50 years of my life I rang it out instead of just shaking it. :D Hang in there though bro you'll figure it out or find a partner that thinks its awesome.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • sexysonofsam
    9 years ago

    I think that you should pay attention to what theGypsysailor has to say, albeit that he has used some harsh realities to explain to you that life does revolve around your dick, ugly as it may be, life does go on. Ugliness is in the eye of the beholder, I have yet to see an ugly dick or pussy for that matter.

    If this is such an ugly dick that you feel it should be fixed, firstly sue the idiot who scarred your dick, then find a decent plastic surgeon (definitely not in the same building as your horse doctor), I would even go to another state and have your ugly dick fixed, just be careful that it cannot get erect afterwards, nothing like an beautiful dick that does not work!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • MysteriousTrainerfromBeyond
    9 years ago

    Ignore Thegypsysailor. I think you just need to talk to someone. It's a common thing to have a low self-image and you shouldn't ever be insulted for it. You're here to get advice and empathy, not brutal, harsh words. I hope you get the help you need to overcome this.

    Best Wishes,

    MTFB

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    It sounds like your penis is all you think about, day and night. You make it sound like everybody can see it and that they care. They don't give a shit. Nobody does. If you ever grow up enough, your girl friend won't care, either. If she loves you, she'll love your ugly dick, too.
    But the way you are going, you will never have a girl friend, or any friends, because no one wants to hang out with somebody whose whole life revolves around their ugly little dick. Get a grip.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1
      -
    • kupokupo
      9 years ago

      That's brutal as fuck. You made some good points but I don't think you could possibly be more insensitive or cold about it.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      4
      4
        -
      • thegypsysailor
        9 years ago

        Sorry. In a world where so many have real, horrific lives, sometimes I just lose patience with these 1st world problems, that people let ruin a perfectly good life.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        -1
        -1
          -
        • Freedom_
          9 years ago

          What if the circumcision went wrong because it occurred in a 3rd world country?

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          0
          0
            -
          • thegypsysailor
            9 years ago

            I doubt it would be of much consequence to someone struggling just to find enough food to survive on, and possibly a bit of shelter from the torrential rains, do you? Vanity is for those with full bellies.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            -1
            -1
              -
            • Freedom_
              9 years ago

              Phallic worship has been around ever since the struggle was real.

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              0
              0
  • Sexyblinks
    9 years ago

    Am going to ask my mother, onl she will be able to tell me about the doctor who destroyed my life, and i don't know where to start because she once told me that i was circumcised four times

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Sexyblinks
    9 years ago

    Any help on how can cosmetic surgery help me in this kind of problem

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    See of you can find the doctor(s) who did this to you and sue them.

    You might be able to get cosmetic surgery for your penis.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • Sexyblinks
    9 years ago

    Thanks fot the great advise and comments, am very greatful to you all

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0