I don't know what to do anymore

My boyfriend is in the air force and will be gone for a year. We've been dating for almost two years and he has been gone for sometimes a few months at a time but I have never cheated on him. One time when he was out of the country another guy with him said his wife cheated on him while they were there and he called to tell me that he was glad that's something he never has to worry about. I can't believe how many cheating stories I've heard in the military but you just need to find a woman strong enough to support your work and be devoted to you. I wouldn't have forgave her at all and just left her right then and there. Get your ring back and leave.

Why are you staying with her anyways? She cheated once, what tells you she won't do it again? I'd break it off and just go have sex with her best friend. So you won't be called a cheater unlike her.

dump that bitch.

^^agree

It is hard to carry out long-distance and military relationships, but it's still unacceptable to cheat..
You were good to forgive her, but it's still bothering you (which is a bad sign that she's tainted your trust in her).
It's better for the two of you if you break it off. She might absolutely love you, but she can't handle this lifestyle.

I think that after she broke your trust, it opened the door for you to look at other women. That is why people should not cheat on someone if they want to spend the rest of your life with them. It is just to much damage. Once someone goes their, it just makes it easy to go there again, and the other person to cheat because he no longer respects you the way he did before. People should just break up once this has happened unless it is something you can live with. If you choose to treat someone bad and become abusive then you should just end it. If you are not prepared to forgive you lover, then it won't work. If you can move on and pretend that it never happened then your relationship might work. Honestly, how can you ever forget what they have done to you. I mean, can you really respect them after doing something so shady. How can you ever trust them? I know that I could not. If it happened to me, then I would just end it. Why keep hurting one another. Two wrongs never make anything right. Just causes broken hearts and lots of hurting.

same ol story my friend! move on to the next one! just another easy life lesson! you could be married with kids before this happened! trust me,you'll wonder why you ever worried about her in a few years!!

Nobody's suggested a threesome?

dump that bitch and fuck her best friend REvenge hahahah

I know what it's like to have strong feelings for someone else, so the best thing I can say, is that you have to wait and see if you ever have a eureka moment that defines how you feel about the other person.

I was once with someone, who no matter how hard I looked at, I could never see any bad in her. I did have one outburst after we broke up, and I regreted it at the time.... But one day, I reached the point to where I could look my entire life, and I'd never see any good in her. And the outburst? Now I feel like I said things that really needed to be said.

Well yeah, its normal, ofcourse you love her if you're going to marry her but you feel hurt because of what she did. Her best friend has to be a little like her if they are indeed best friends?
You feel like you want to cheat but you pick the person thats closest to her because you love her too much to want to be with someone that isnt like her. My advise? Stay away from her friend, dont blatantly ignore her just do your best to be out of the way without being suspicious.