I don't know what is happening to me.. do i have a problem/s?

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When I was like 6-5 years younger, I'm socially active. I have lot of friends. I can interact with people, in fact, I'm so humorous and considered as a clown in our group. But when I reached 20, I started to feel that I'm becoming quiet and do things on my own. Weeks passed, and my quietness worsen. I would talk when asked or when they/he/she talk/s to me first. My humor changed. Less people find my humor funny. Less people find my topic interesting. Less people is now my friend. At 21, I think this technically not normal. I'm just thinking that I'm maturing. But something is telling me that this isn't just about maturing.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    10 years ago

    Well what happened between ages 6-20? If you're basing your social life on how you acted when you were 5 that could be a problem. Your comfort zone is too far back in time, too immature. When i was 5, i didn't have much of a sense of humor - now i have a dry sense of humor. If you liked fart jokes when you were 5, but they're not working for you now, try gay jokes or jokes about how unorganized your life is or something. Shed and grow, little chameleon. Shed and grow.

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    • adrianhansen1212
      10 years ago

      I said 5-6 years younger, not 5-6 years old. I'm witty, I mean I throw smart and not-so-immature jokes, but it is not just about how I joke. I want to have the kind of social confidence and interaction like I have before, but I can't though I tried.
      There are lot of barriers. I tend to overthink what would they react with what will I say or do. It is like I'm having such complicated algorithm in my mind. Like if I say/do this would it make me weird in there eye, would they get offended, would they understand my witty jokes, would they blah or blah or blah-blah.

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      • myboyfriendsbitch
        10 years ago

        Perfect example. See how i tried to be funny and insightful and ended up looking like a tard instead? It's ok to do that sometimes...not to often, but sometimes.

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        • myboyfriendsbitch
          10 years ago

          Idk what the hell I'm talking about. I reread your post and realized i make no sense. My apologies.

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  • DarkBlue
    10 years ago

    It's not really something than one can deem normal or not. People change on different levels, as they grow old their attitude, habits and personalities change to varying extents. The question u should ask yourself are you happy with this change or not? If you're happy with yourself then yeah maybe your personality is changing in the way that you needed. If you miss your old self than try to ask yourself what happened and try to get yourself back.

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  • squeallikeasacofpigs
    10 years ago

    Nah bro, it's called becoming an adult. Get drunk and that'll probably bring out the real you and not the socially acceptable adult version of yourself you've turned into.

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    • adrianhansen1212
      10 years ago

      That's my hobby.

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      • squeallikeasacofpigs
        10 years ago

        Snap

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Jeffery Dahmer?

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    • adrianhansen1212
      10 years ago

      haha. never

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        He was the group clown as a teen, then had no friends....then he done eat people.

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        • adrianhansen1212
          10 years ago

          I know his story.

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            You know noffings.

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