I don't know how to handle this situation?

A very close friend of mine was drunk last night and broke down crying and telling me she missed me because we used to be best friends and now we're just friends. She says she had tried to be strong but she couldn't handle it anymore and that she was really sad for our distance lately and kept saying she was worried about me because of my new friends, which she thinks are bad influences. I honestly didn't know what to say I just kept wiping her tears off and saying "but I'm still your friend". I don't really feel sad about our distance because I've realized even though she's someone I trust I just can't be open with her like I used to. She's a good person but she's is very close minded, judgmental and has childish mind. I can't tell her anything without her making a huge deal about it. And the so called "bad influences" are just friends that I'm getting more close to lately, and they're not forcing me to do anything, not even persuading me. I told her having new friends does not mean I stop being her friend, I can have more than one friend at a time, but she disagrees and says I can't. I feel like a bad person for not being as affected as her and it hurts me to see her cry but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I'll talk to her sometime this week but I still don't know what to say. Any advice is really appreciated. Also I don't want to lose her but we're both changing and we're naturally growing apart, should I accept it's the end or should I try to make our friendship work? Thank you for any advice.

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  • lostinvirginia

    I agree it sounds like she loves you, if that is the case ask her on a date and make a move to see how she responds. However, no matter what happens i don't think she has a right to tell you who your friends are outside of her. She only says that because she wants you to herself, that's how women who love you are.

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  • For good pussy-Fuck a cat!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Could you define "bad influences"? What is it about these friend or what you do with them that is "bad"? Please elaborate.

    Obviously from your post your friend doesn't have a problem with alcohol and as far as marijuana is concerned the only real problem with it is that it's not legal unless ya'll live in Colorado or Washington.

    Now if your new friends are into stealing, violence or hard drugs like crystal meth amphetamine, crack cocaine or other hard addictive drugs then I hate to break it to you but in such case your old "judgmental" friend would be right!

    I wish you all the best but don't do anything stupid.

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  • kini.mesi

    She loves you...

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    • 69

      yeah, yeah, yeah!

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