I don't know how to get over this feeling

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Hi, i've been dating my boyfriend for over three years. We are in college now and I feel like i'm starting to get badly obsessed with him. Our colleges are about 15 minuets away from each other so I see him about every weekend. I have been spending the night at his place about once every week. But my problem is that every time he brings me back to college is that I feel literally sick and lonely because I don't want to be away from him. I know it is not healthy for us to be together all the time but I can't help always wanting to be with him. I don't have a solid friend group yet at college and that makes going back to college even harder. I was hoping you could give me some advice because I am tired of feeling sick and wanting to cry every time he leaves. He somewhat knows how I feel, but I haven't told him everything because I don't want to scare him away.

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  • Short4Words
    8 years ago

    You need roots elsewhere. Start trying to make friends at your college.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    8 years ago

    Do you know how he feels about you? Because if it's not serious to him then you're just waiting to get your heart broken. You should really find some more friends in case things go bad. Other than that, feeling sick and sad probably won't kill you. Sometimes it's nice to feel anything.
    And who knows, it might be love.
    Or insanity ... I can never tell.

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  • Mikeymanc
    8 years ago

    Sounds immature , like a first love . I'm sure as you grown up you will learn to live your life independently aswell as with a partner

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    • Deadpool?#911
      7 years ago

      your a quadruple amputee and paralysed from the neck down staring at the wall in a cell in guantanomo forever mike adriano, fuck you and israel i nuked your precious holy land you disgusting porn star piece of shit... any israelite still alive by now is getting his cock cut off and they're all in military custody for kidnapping little girls from here and getting them gang raped by arabs just so the u.s will get mad and kill more arabs. rush hour was a sick joke and china and israel are gone now.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    15 minutes away? That's nothing. Get on the bus, bike or train and go see him. Problem solved.

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