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Everyone around me has had crushes on someone and i'm the only one left. I was just wondering what it felt like and how it started??
It's hard to describe, but you'll know it when you feel it. Don't worry or try to force it. It'll happen to you naturally.
I didn't really have a crush throughout highschool, I hated my graduating class and I never sought anyone out. Then the end of my summer going into senior year I met a lovely man at a party who graduated a year before me, never saw him around school, I thought that was weird. That was 2009 and now in 2015, after a lot of shit, we still love each other. He is constantly on my mind, since the second time we hung out (I was drunk as hell the first encounter). I feel like I always want to do things for him and please him, make him happy. I get so excited when theres something I want to tell him later that I think he'll appreciate. He's the first person I want to share everything with. But falling in love also made me realize how jealous, irrational and insecure I can be. Being crazy about someone makes me feel like I'm actually just crazy, but thats ok.
Also, he gives me lady boners.
It all started when this guy named Adam saw this cute chick across the garden. His pulse sped up and he got flushed, but he was too shy to talk to her so they never met and that's why there are no more people on earth.
For me it's when the person crosses my mind during the day. Sometimes I'll dream about my crush. The feelings with it are a combination of happiness, sadness, and nausea.
You'll know when you feel it. If I go back and retrace everything that led me to him it'd take a while...but I knew when we texted for the first time that those feelings were there. This is the longest I've had these feelings and I've never cared for anyone else like this. I feel frustrated sometimes, but nothing is perfect.
Crushes are when you fancy someone and they either A)don't feel the same way or B) you don't know how they feel. When two people get a crush on each other they tend to date. So I must ask, do you never get crushes because you never fancy anybody or do you never get crushes because the people always fancy you back?