I don't get this at all

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Ok my ex just admited that he was still in love with me (I already knew) which made me so happy because I really want him back. But now he is basically being evasive. I don't know why but he is pulling away yet again. The odd thing is that it's the same time of year that he pulled away the last time. Even though we aren't together we are faithful to each other. I know he is scared it's obvious. I want to tell him that I'd rather die before I'd ever hurt him but I'm too shy. He is my first love and I'm wondering if this is normal?

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    Hmm, you sure he loves you? This sounds more he can't be alone.

    If he do in fact loves you, then he maybe intimidated on where this is heading and the "opportunities" he is leaving behind, but i think probly is the first.

    Try to find out somehow what he is really feeling about this.

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  • onlyemperor
    13 years ago

    wait

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  • Mormodes
    13 years ago

    It's not normal. In fact you should be ashamed, you are the kind of chic guys don't like.

    No one would ever truly like you.

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    why you broke up?

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    • Ryuhei
      13 years ago

      Because he said that he didnt love me anymore but i knew he was full of shit

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  • HurrrDurrr
    13 years ago

    He might have Seasonal Affective Disorder. It's a form of depression brought on by seasonal changes most commonly occurring during winter.

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    • Ryuhei
      13 years ago

      That would really really suck but I understand it.

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  • timebobbu
    13 years ago

    nice title "i don' get this at all"

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  • dork
    13 years ago

    Totally norm. You guys probably do want to be with eachother but there might have been disfunction in the relationship that you guys are afraid to get back into. So it's probably for the best that you stay away from eachother. The one thing I find weird is that you are both monogamous to eachother even though you are not an item. The best way to get over the relationship is to fall in love with someone else.

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  • scotty4444
    13 years ago

    Its human nature to want what you cant have, to regret letting go of someone once they are gone, to not appreciate anything you take for granted, and to be afraid to commit for fear of discovering you made the wrong choice. But this is definately the wrong guy for you, he only wants you when he afraid he will lose you, only wants to be close when you are far away, only loves you when he thinks you are slipping away, and doesnt like the idea of someone else having you, but doesnt know if he really wants you himself. Typical young guy.

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