I don't get it!!!

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So i have jealousy and anger issues with my boyfriend, we have been dating nearly 5 years, we love eachother very much, i am going to church now to seek help for my issues, god is helpin me! but my bf wants us to be on a "break" but meet up occasionally meaning like 3 or 4 days and nights a week for sex, i dont know how i should feel bout this, he will take me back when i change my ways. which i am trying really hard to do, but dont know if it is fair how this "break" is going! what do you think?

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  • sweetest_strawberry
    14 years ago

    Fuck that shit. look chick, this guy is acting like he is above you. everyone one has issues and problems and they can all use important. If he really loves you and whats to be with you hed stick by you in your time and need. through thick and thin right? well this is thick. and you should be insulted he wants to not see you but have sex with you, wtf.. thats pretty close to using you.
    be your own person and find someone to accept you for who you are and work through your flaws.

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    • looneypride
      14 years ago

      thanks very much and i hope that he and i can make it work, if we bite our tongues it goes well, but that aint fun, he hates when i cry, and when i screw up he yells at me like i am a dog. YOUR AN IDIOT, IMMATURE BABY, STOP YOUR FU**ING CRYING ECT..........

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  • SweetAdeline
    14 years ago

    This guy wants to have his cake and eat it too, get "some" every now and then without the commitment of dating. Kick his sorry A** to the curb!

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  • Themaskedman
    11 years ago

    He's a piece of shit dump him

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  • pounderboy
    7 years ago

    Dont worry you will get it.

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  • mdp
    12 years ago

    He's is using you for sex he obviously wants you however he wants you and you can't do what you think is right I've been with this guy for three years he told me nearly the same thing and I said no and he came around a few days later even though he said he wouldn't. He just wants other girls and you even if he says it's not true it is honey men lie

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  • den411
    13 years ago

    yeah im a guy who used to do this...before i had a daughter. your dating a creep, he just wants u for sex. move on, get used to that predatory type behavior in men, find guys who have other shit going on than just wanting to fuck everything that moves. For the record, i have actually seen some of these guys firsthand, and they always have problems meeting girls despite their looks. I dont understand women enough to comment on that fact. That seems like some internal woman issue i'll never understand.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    no one wants to be the target of a person with jealousy and anger issues. he may be burned out by your behavior. that being said, i think he's offering you a shitty deal.

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    • looneypride
      14 years ago

      yeah i know it was hard to deal with on both our ends i feel horrible that i let my low self esteem effect our relationship!

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  • ComboBreaker
    14 years ago

    Your ways? Maby it is to much for him. Yes he should be there to suport you while changeing your ways, but have you talked to him about the way your doing it? You mentiond god is helping you, wich is great. But maby he thought "he" could help you, or maby he has a conflicting religion or belief. Obviously he dosnt want the relationship to be over. It seems he just dosnt want to be around for the parts that would be understandable to be afraigd of. Who knows, maby he feels a little useless in this situation or left out. Depending on what other stuff has been happening and what you're changeing from, It could be any number of things. Good luck.

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    • looneypride
      14 years ago

      yeah we both love eachother and that is why he is still wanting to see me and he doesnt go to church cause he has had bad experiances in the past. he has tried to help with my problems in tha past but it didnt work, but i feel that God can help. I pray he does. half of me wants this relationship to work but the other half notices that my boyfriend can be a jerk and makes me afraid to call or text him for help or anything, i feel if i cant even talk to him how can it work? thanks for reading@

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  • casualcrow
    14 years ago

    This person does sound like a typical guy, but you can't say that it's unfair and he's taking advantage of you because..uh..you're still having sex with him. Unless he's forcing you to have sex this is part your fault too.

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  • christine
    14 years ago

    Its not fair to you at all! He seems to just want you for sex and not as a real girlfriend. He wants what all guys want- a sex toy that they can play with whenever they want with no obligations or emotional attachments. Out of respect for yourself and your wants and desires DON'T DO IT!

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