I don't feel complete

I was adopted when I was 2 days old.i met my natural mother when I was 27.she says she doesn't remember my father's name.my parents that raised me were the best parents I could of asked for.they have both passed away.i would like to know my natural father. It really bothers me.how do I live with this?

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  • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann

    Time to start digging. Be warned though, the past is seldom pretty and sometimes, things are best left unknown. Good luck.

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    • passion4purple

      I know you have to take the good with the bad . Unfortunately I had a good amount of bad with my mother.we do not have a relationship. Thanks for your comment

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      • Doktor_Hildred_Von_Steinmann

        You are very welcome. All the best.

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  • passion4purple

    I find it very upsetting that this post of such importance got 4 comments. And my other post got like 30...Thank you to you 4.i was trying to find some closure to this issue since I'm very ill..and I explained that on my other post and still got bashed.this world is full of evil.and it shares me to not be here to protect my children. I will not give this site anymore of my precious time.i have nothing to fear when I meet god.but many do!

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  • passion4purple

    It would be nice to know if I have siblings. Know health issues.my mother is a cancer surviver and please don't be rude. .NO a he was not an escort.she had a one night stand with a guy in her night school.shes had a dramatic life since I was born.im now 45. She says she doesn't remember his name.

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  • Nokiot9

    I was adopted when I was a week old. Idk either of my birth parents... I'd like to I guess. You can't miss what you never knew, right? Wrong. There is a kind of... void, at not knowing ones own flesh and blood progenitors. I'd maybe post some Craig's list ads. Maybe check the national DNA database or whatever to see if you can get any close blood relatives. I'm not sure if they even do that, but if so, it would be your best bet. How does your mother not know the guys name that knocked her up? Was she an escort or something?

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  • kelili

    It's normal to want to know your origins, I hope for you that your mother understands your desire and helps you.

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    • passion4purple

      She doesn't understand. In fact she says.i don't know why you don't believe me..she says she just doesn't know.i found out I was 27, I'm now 45.

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