I don't experience jealousy

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I never feel jealous of other people, even though i'm not exactly succesful by society's standards. I want to push myself to do better, but don't have any motivation. I'm proud of myself simply for being me. I've always been like that. Feeling like I don't have to prove anything to anyone. I sometimes wonder if this is weird, or actually a common thing.
I feel like I have some kind of positive narcissism personality. But I looked up narcissistic traits and in alot of ways i'm the opposite. I just really like myself, and wouldn't trade places with anyone (more succesful). Anyone else feel like that? Btw I do experience romantic jealousy and have decided I'm gonna avoid serious relationships because i don't like feeling like that. Alot of people think i'm weird/ a liar when I say i'm happy with myself. Like I should hate myself for not making alot of money, not having a relationship etc. I feel like people constantly compare themselves to others, and I've never been like that.

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  • tomwaitsfornoone
    7 years ago

    Some of what you describe is healthy and normal, but you do sound like an emotionally detached person. Besides having no motivation, do you also feel you have no passion and are content being single? Because that would fit the pattern

    You avoiding serious relationships because you don't like feeling like that... imagine what all other things you probably avoid just because you don't want that specific emotion. As cheesy as this sounds, contentment is sometimes a result of merely existing... as opposed to truly living. Instead of avoiding a relationship altogether why not TELL your partner about your jealous feelings. You would be surprised to know that sharing your insecurities strengthens relationships

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    • Wolverine99
      7 years ago

      She's careless and stupid. Words don't mean anything to her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Thanks for your answer. I'm only 22 so I still have alot of time to change my view on relationships. I would like a casual relationship but I just don't like the drama that comes with a serious one. I'm a very passionate person actually, I just think I have a weird way of looking at myself and the world and I was wondering if some people could relate. But thank you for your post.

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      • tomwaitsf0rnoone
        7 years ago

        “The trouble is, you think you have time.”

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    Awesome for you!!! I used to be a jealous person until one day I cut all that stuff out of me. Life is too short to add jealousy in to your life.

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    • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#R5
      7 years ago

      Life is too short that God damn skippy62able.

      FEMALE VOMIT BLOWJOB

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      • Azaman
        7 years ago

        Do you have tourettes or something?

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        • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#R5
          7 years ago

          Who's that FAGGOT with a tuba?

          https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=l1HQeoMEZDY

          Yes I do have tourettes how does it make you feel making fun of the unfortunate?

          Does it make you feel better putting down a person such as myself with tourettes? How does that make you feel inside making fun of mental retardation such as myself Azaman? How does that make you feel?

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          • Azaman
            7 years ago

            Makes me feel pretty good.

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            • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#R5
              7 years ago

              Interesting. Everclear makes me feel good I'm also listening to Slayer (hell awaits original and authentic album) it's a nice mix.

              A friends mechanic came to my place and his truck problem was electrical, I had my RAT on shoulder while he was explaining the solution (with the intake dismantled)...

              I then proceeded to offer a solution by tilting the carb intake and suggested sticking RAT in the hole and proceeded to do so...

              He said "no, that'll suck em into the intake" I smiled went back inside my house, came back out 30 minutes later and offered him approximately 20 oz of frozen water with a cup...

              IIN? Have you played the game zombies ate my neighbors for the Sega Genesis?

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          • Azaman
            7 years ago

            Haha, I was just watching that

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            • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#R5
              7 years ago

              I put it on repeat.

              If you like tourettes guy perhaps you'll like "best of pastor manning" on YouTube.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      How did you "cut all that stuff out"?

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      • [Old Memory]
        7 years ago

        Instead of putting this freak show inside of me of been a psycho I decided to look at guys who have good looking girls.... And you know what?... They just simply let them be themselves, they attention by other guys and the husbands or boyfriend simply enjoy it..... Because after all the one going to you in bed is her......
        We got to the point that what we see during the day turns of on during the night. Now, the more we see guys looking at my hot girl the more we laugh. Poor guys, the act like they have never seen a good looking woman before. We have even notice guys getting to try to talk to us but they are scared, shy or what ever... We just simply relax end enjoy!!!

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    I don't feel jealousy of others except if someone has really cute shoes. But it doesn't last long becos if I really want them I go buy them for myself.

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    • IMissMary
      7 years ago

      That might not always work.

      My wife buys her shoes from Japan via mail order, you won't find them in the US

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        I know how to use thw internet.

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        • IMissMary
          7 years ago

          1) you would not know where she bought them so you would not know to look at a specific japanese web site.

          2) unless you can read japanese you'd be out of luck

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          • IMissMary
            7 years ago

            The thing is, thats pretty much the only place where she can buy shoes because her feet are so small. They are literally the same size as my hand.

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  • Corncakes
    7 years ago

    It's called being humble I think.

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