I don't care if i orgasm

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I've only orgasmed like, 7 times since i've been with my boyfriend and I really don't mind? I think the sex is amazinggg without it. I hear a lot of women complain about their boyfriends or husbands not being able to make them orgasm but I can't even really wrap my mind around that. Orgasms really aren't that special to me. It's the entirety of sex that is. I don't know if there's just something wrong with my body that makes orgasms less enjoyable or if this is relatively common to not like them that much.

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    If you are actually just 18, I'm going to have to guess your best orgasm is yet to come. Don't worry about it and enjoy sex. If your boyfriend has much experience, he can probably tell that your orgasms are mild. That should make him want to try different techniques with you to give you a better orgasm. Have fun.

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    • SwickDinging
      5 years ago

      Yup. I think back then I would be lucky to have an orgasm at all with a guy. Girls have to grow into it I think.

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  • Geekt67
    5 years ago

    If you’re stressed or have a lot on your mind or are not fully happy in your relationship than that COULD be why you’re unsble to cum. You may want to have a glass of wine or something to make you relax before sex, give more attention to your clitty and you will cum. I promise

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    • angelbabyyy
      5 years ago

      Thank you. This is one of the only helpful comments i've gotten.

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    Orgasms are the absolute tits. But yeah you can enjoy sex still without them. If you're doing it right it all feels good

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  • dingbatdickerson
    5 years ago

    Lucky you, I swear... I was just watching Teletubbies and there was a sound like there were powerful radio waves, my vision flashed yellow and now I'm still trying to stop the vertigo and projectile vomiting it caused. Bastards must have sent something from space to destroy my mind, imagine an orgasm but only extremely painful. That is what just happened to us tomorrow,it caused death, god i feel so sick

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  • Joeydude
    5 years ago

    I wish I could see sex that way.

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    You need to find a new boyfriend..

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    • angelbabyyy
      5 years ago

      He DOES make me orgasm, that's not the issue whatsoever. Plus, i masturbate often. Orgasms just have never been the end goal for me lol.

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    Can I ask if you are around St. Louis area ? Kirkwood to be more specific.

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    • leggs91200
      5 years ago

      No one wants to go over and help you whack off in your frilly panties.

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      No.

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      • CDmale4fem
        5 years ago

        Wasnt talking to you here .

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        • IrishPotato
          5 years ago

          No, just stop.

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  • CDmale4fem
    5 years ago

    From things on here that I have read, there is a difference for women between the cumming and the Orgasm. Don't worry, the guys will pretty much always get to the finish line. We are just horndogs like that. Do you ever look on YouTube for the Women's DIY to great Orgasms ? Never say never. I bet if you were taking matters into your own hands a bit more, you might find them to be more enjoyable. If you dont, then give it a few laps and see how well you can drive your own car around the track.(So to speak.

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    • angelbabyyy
      5 years ago

      I masturbate often and do orgasm then sometimes. It still isn't too amazing to me

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      • rivalnegro97
        5 years ago

        My gf never cum in a year with me, Idk what's the problem, she doesn't invite the feeling and seems to be afraid of cumming, Idk what to do

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      • CDmale4fem
        5 years ago

        You don't get that "euphoric" omg kind of head to toe warm feeling and then want to fall asleep ? Can I ask your age ? Perhaps something like having someone watching you might up you e happy level when you are done. I would volunteer if you need one. (For the sake of your orgasmic happiness. Lol.

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        • CDmale4fem
          5 years ago

          I just read your profile and I see you are 18. When you find a "real" special someone, it just might be the magical thing for you that is should be.

          P.S. Can I ask "what is a 3b afro ? Or is that sposed to be a 3D .?

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          • angelbabyyy
            5 years ago

            It's a type of curly hair lolllll

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            • CDmale4fem
              5 years ago

              Is it 3b or 3d or I guess it really doesn't make a difference. As long as it works for you and you like it. Is it on your head or your Down yonder ?

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