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I always try to masturbathe but I feel nothing, nothing turns me on from it so it’s strange on how other people can enjoy it.
I discovered that I didn’t have a clitoris, how weird is that? I searched everywhere for it and it was no where to be found. I was confused and I thought ‘Maybe thats why’
Maybe I was born without a clitoris? I don’t know, can someone explain this to me?
(By the way I know what a clitoris is and what it looks like)
I was intrigued (and appalled) by the possibility that a woman could be born without a clitoris, so did some Googling.
According to Wikipedia, about one male in 5-6 million is born without a penis due to fetal developmental problems. Since the penis and clitoris both come from the same tissue in the fetus, I assume it is possible - but very rare - for a woman to be born without a clitoris.
Another possibility is a problem that can be addressed with surgery. I stole this from the MedHelp website:
"It could be phimosis or a buried clitoris or clitoral adhesions. If your foreskin/prepuce/clitoral hood is too long or adhered to your clitoris you can be circumcised the way a male is and your clitoris will be exposed. Go to a gynocologist and don't worry this is pretty common with about 25% of sexually mature women having phimosis."
That figure surprises me, since I've never knowingly encountered a woman with this problem. Even though my experience isn't vast, if a quarter of women have the problem, that makes it pretty common.
Another woman posting on that thread said that she had huge problems locating her clitoris until she did some exploring with a Mini-Mite vibrator. The active end of these vibrators is very small, so they can be used with pinpoint accuracy.
If you need help, I will come and help you look for it.
But seriously, I have never heard of another woman saying anything like this. I suppose there is always t part when you ask your parents if anything was different about you when you were born.
It happens.
I feel bad for you.
Ive been with 1 woman that had this also.
she was a filipina.
most filipinas have normal features, and a high sex drive.
this one though.
she had no clitoris.
she got wet, but did not orgasm.
I did my best, she enjoyed it.
But, no big O.
I just moved on, why bother.
wish I could offer some help but...
youre kinda like a dude born with a micro penis.
hope you have a great personality.
Way to get her self-esteem up, jackhole...
Can you not see how this might have some emotional baggage attached to it? Like, she might feel like "less of a woman" because she can't orgasm properly?
To whoever the original poster is, you are every bit the woman as every other woman who walks this earth. Don't pay attention to negative comments such as the one above. Peace.