I disrespect my uncles grave on new years eve

My uncle was an abusive person, he would force me to take off my clothes in front of him, he wanted me dead to the point that I wanted to hang myself, he would physically punch me in the face to the point where he'd get a restraining order from my mother and father. I go to his grave and I smear shit on his grave, he's been dead over a year ago ( Died on New Years Eve ), I am glad that he's dead but I still hold my intense dislike for him.

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Comments ( 16 )
  • Diaperdean

    Probably pretty normal but ponder this.

    Hell is a horrible place and that is undoubtedly where you dead uncle is and will be for all eternity so you can go ahead and let it go and get on with your life. God sees everything!!

    The Bible says that vengeance is God's. Shitting and pissing on his grave doesn't do anything. The wrath of GOD is something else!! Eternity is a long Long LONG Time!!

    In the Bible there is a place in Heaven where you can look across the "chasm" and see you enemies suffering in Hell! If you believe in Jesus as YOUR Lord and Savior you can know that vengeance is God's and in your time you will be able to watch him suffer his own fate!! And another rewarding revelation is he will also be able to see you in GLORY watching him suffer!!

    I hope this gives you some peace of mind because if somebody sees you at the cemetery with your pants down around your ankles taking a big shit on your uncles grave you could probably get in some pretty serious trouble.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I'm certainly not mad at you.

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  • Its normal.

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  • LloydAsher

    I'm not a fan of people disgracing graves. No matter how shit the person. That's why an unmarked grave is insulting.

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  • Whatintarnation

    That's rough. I'm truly sorry that happened to you. Makes me think of that holding on to acid only ruins the vessel it's in type saying. Hopefully can work on moving past the pain. Good luck to you.

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  • SwickDinging

    Sounds like a waste of time.

    If it makes you feel better though... I guess it's not doing any harm.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Are you the same tool that goes and disrespects his grandma’s grave also lol.

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    • Bazinga

      Meh. Pissing on graves is a good way to get closure. Dancing naked on graves in the moonlight is a much more interesting expression of weirdness, especially for the observer.

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      • Tommythecaty

        Closure doesn’t exist my man.

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        • Bazinga

          You're probably right. But a good piss is a thing of beauty.

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  • Mini69

    What year did he die?

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    • Died in 2019.

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      • Mini69

        I was figuring it was last year but that means your post doesn’t add up.

        You say he died last year on New Year’s Eve, so last New Year he would not yet have a grave as he only died that day. You say you dance on his grave every New Years Eve, but this is the first New Years Eve that his grave has existed and that is today so have you even done that today or is it something you are planning for tonight in which case it hasn’t even happened yet. So it may still not happen for some unforeseen circumstances you are not even aware of yet.

        Finally you say he died over a year ago, but it is only a ago today so it’s not even over a year yet!

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        • Diaperdean

          You didn't read it correctly.

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          • Mini69

            Or maybe you didn’t write it correctly

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            • Diaperdean

              I didn't write it. But I do know how to read.

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