I develop feelings but its never mutual , is it normal and what do i do?

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I always develop feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same, or if they do its never pursued or spoken of. I sometimes wonder if there will EVER be someone who is infatuated with me for a chance and I hope it'll be a person whom I like romantically. I don't know what to do because I'm always heart brocken by people as they always hurt me or don't want me.
I have a great family and I know I'm luky and grateful for that. Its just I would like to be with someone one day and that its mutual. One of the main reasons why I haven't been in a relationship is because of this, the fact that I don't want to date for the sake of it, I want it to be meaningful.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Lighten up. Every date doesn't have to be meaningful. You could go out with somebody just to have a pleasant evening with a friend.
    Not every encounter or experience with another is going to be deep and meaningful. Some are just casual encounters, like ships passing in the night. Friends that are only around for a small bit of time, but friends none the less. Enjoy their company while you can.

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  • IndianaRose
    8 years ago

    Youre completely and utterly fucked ive loved someone for 7 and a half yrs he loved me bk but never said .. what a cunt right

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  • bucho's_butt
    8 years ago

    I feel exactly the same way. It's all fucked up. Everything's fucked up!

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