I desire older men?

Recently, a guy my age has been flirting with me a lot. I have never been in a "real" relationship before and I was think about what it would be like to have a relationship with him. Naturally, (At least to me) thinking about having a relationship made sex come up in my thoughts and it totally disgusted me. For some reason the thought of having sex with older men seems much more appealing to me. Does this mean I'm into older men?

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  • Gelmurag

    Copied from another post of mine.

    But then why are girls attracted to older men, and older men attracted to younger girls? Generally speaking, a younger girl is more resilient physically than an older woman. From a biological perspective, this means that at the onset of puberty, she can start having children, and her chances of survival are increased because of her youth. The opposing side to that is why on earth a younger girl would prefer to mate with an older male. Mainly strength. An older male will have established hunting trails, and knowledge how to defend himself and his "family." A younger male will have a more difficult time protecting/bringing food home simply because he isn't as experienced. Obviously back in those days life spans were quite short. But we haven't really evolved out of that yet. It was quite common for 12 year old girls to mate with 25-30 year old males. More chances to get her pregnant, more ability to provide, more potential offspring.

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    • unsicher

      Top!

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  • iceprincess

    You are not alone :)

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    • topper33

      how old do you like them? and how old are you?

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      • iceprincess

        Im 22, somewhere between 30-35..i just find guys my age usually not to be mature and i find dating someone older is way more fun.:) what about u?

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        • topper33

          i agree that young men are not very mature im older and was just wondering is all.since you wrote this have you found an older guy?at 22 he would be very luvky indeed lol

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          • iceprincess

            Lol... But I recently started dating again ( few dates ) i was with a " older man " for over a year. So i guess im still looking;)

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  • Dad

    If its more appealing to you, then yes :)

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  • Mando

    It sure means you aren't into that guy.

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  • 1badassog&AA

    It's normal and not uncommon to be attracted to older men! As many here have already said most of us are attracted to younger ladies too. Always get to know who the man is before leaving the safety of a public area. Take a friend with you to meet and have him show them some id & write down his name should anything happen. I have shared some very beautiful memories with young ladies and have taught each of them these methods for their safety. Love to you all

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  • c9az

    older men are done with the drugs the running around drinking and smoking and are ready to stay home and be a man

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  • barbara.ella1999

    nothing wrong my first time has been with a man 20 years older thand me ;)

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    • mlbryan44

      How old are you now? I am interested in you personally.

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  • ILikeIt2

    I am a 57 year old male and have come accross many other older men with a lot of simmilar experience in the subject of age. When a woman reaches 45 years old or so, her desire for sex goes way down. Us old guys are lucky to get it once a month. It becomes necessary to find it elssware. If you get with an older man (of course assuming he is healthy. Old fat guys can't get it up anyway) He will be satisfied with only you for a good 25 years or so, and then his own desire will start to drop off. This way he won't have to find a girlfriend or prostitutes on the side. It gets expensive and is a lot of trouble.

    Another problem is half of women (maybe it's beginning to improve now) don't orgasm. If they don't ograsm, they become worthless even faster. If you are 22 and not having sex everyday by now, you need to see a sex therapist or start masterbating so you can learn how to orgasm. Men like girls that like to F--K. Its the glue that hold things together. If your man get lots of it, he will give you anything you want.

    Maybe you women don't want to read this, and you young guys havent discovered it yet, and the old guys are upset that I'm letting out the facts that are kept quiet.

    Women over 50; ask yourself "how often is your husband getting sex? I will tell you; At least once a week. Is it with you? Or have you fattend him up to where he can no longer get it up and is unatractive to other women anyway?

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  • topper33

    has anything changed for you?
    maybe you should find a guy whos about 50 or so

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  • cocofuu

    you will get disease no way!!!!

    The following cases of serious infection after licking Pets for wounds:
    Diabetic, caught the disease bacteria Albastarilla, because his dog to lick injured toe, causing infection in the spinal marrow. [61]
    After a woman's recovery from surgery to remove a cancerous tumor of the uterus, infected as a result of her cat to lick the wound. [62]
    After a woman's recovery from knee surgery, suffered permanent knee infection due to licking her dog for a small cut in a finger of her foot. [63]
    Australian woman led licking her dog for a small burn has to blood poisoning and infection in her toes and hands, as well as one of her legs, and then all Petrhm. [64]
    A man has his dog licking an open wound in his hand, which led to blood poisoning and then suffering acute kidney failure. [65]
    A man died in the eighth and sixty years of age as a result of sepsis and the erosion of his flesh after the dog licking one of his wounds. [66]
    Transfer blood donor bacterial infection to recipient at the age of 74 years, after his cat had licked his fingers the wounded. [67]
    Wounded seven-week-old baby meningitis, a result of being pet's saliva. [68]
    Evolved injury patient with a hole in the ear drum to meningeal inflammation, after the dog licking his ear. [69]
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  • unsicher

    Like the others say, first it depends on your age and laws of your area.

    Gelmurag has exactly detailed the reasoning.

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  • topper33

    how old are you?

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  • What'sright

    It is very normal. Most men older men either enjoy being with a younger woman or they Fantisize about it. So run with your feelings and enjoy your life. You only have one to live.

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  • ygrowup

    You could make someone older very happy, at the same time bring happiness to yourself! Good luck with your choices

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  • ForMyPeaceOfMind

    It's perfectly fine to find older gentlemen desirable, however, I hope you are of age!

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