I denied a relationship!

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A year ago I had a relationship that didn't last for long.. almost 1 month. I was misunderstood and It was such a horrible experience and certainly a dark spot in my life. He was a new friend but he got closer to me as a friend too quickly so he can ask me out. And I was so depressed that time cause of certain circumstances and I thought I loved him and admitted that I like him alot when he asked me. However, he thought he had me already and I found myself in a relationship.. He started acting strange, careless and blamed me for things I didn't do so it didn't work out. And we're not even talking at all. Even I heard that he said awful things about me and that I was running after him from the start. He started ignoring me and so I did.

A year later .. an old highschool friend said that he heard that I was in a relationship with that guy. And I laughed and said No.

Now.. I don't know if this is normal to deny reality that I don't accept.. Even if that friend knew about it .. It wouldn't have changed a thing. Is it good to lie in this situation? Just wondering..

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  • Chill_Pill
    14 years ago

    Sounds like you weren't really in a relationship anyway. Believe me most relationships in high school and below are fruitless learning experiences, with a small exception. Move on. I would deny it too. It sounds lame. Good Luck.

    ~Peace~

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    • 4w04se
      14 years ago

      alright then.. well I feel relieved when I deny it since it wasn't something big anyway.. Thanks for replying =]

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  • kanachan
    14 years ago

    He was a jerk! D:
    and yes it's only normal. I wouldn't admit being in a relationship like that too if I were you.

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  • KiwiThePsycho
    9 years ago

    This happened to me too when I was in school, though we must have silently agreed to have broken up when he started ignoring me right after asking me to be his girlfriend. He later on started telling people we used to be in a relationship, but that was in name only and we didn't officially break up. There was no relationship to speak of, since we didn't interact, and it's totally okay for you to perceive it this way too.

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  • gashlover
    9 years ago

    you cant turn a hooker into a housewife

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    What lie? You were not in a relationship with the guy at the time she asked. Nor were you obliged to recount what was an awkward failure of a short lived attempt at a relationship.

    We all have these things that don't turn out well. You needn't feel bad about it or that you do not have to tell anyone anything about your private affairs. They are yours and no one else's.

    Privacy is an idea gossips totally don't get.

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  • jove4peace
    13 years ago

    It wasnt a relationship. what you stated was abuse. Its good to deny the terms you wish to fully want to keep as pure, happy and enjoyable... :) e.g relationship. ;)

    cheers!

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