I dabbled with bisex when i was younger

I had bi sex once or twice when I was in my 20's just experimenting. It layed dorment for years. Now I am in my 50's married. All I can seem to think about is bi sex with men. I know I am not gay, as I don't look at a man and think he is cute. I just love men for sex only. Is this normal

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  • Joboo6

    So did I. At about 14 or so a neighborhood friend felt me up at a sleepover. It felt so good I let him continue until someone woke up and he stopped. I felt guilty the next day until he called me telling me he was home alone. I went straight down and we played with each other until precum was flowing, then we jerked each other until we came. It felt so much better than doing it myself I did it with him all summer. When school started back I had a GF and I ended it with him until we were 18.

    He and I ended up alone one night and I thought he would try again since he had many times since we stopped. Drinking beer parked in the woods at night I let him get my pants down and jerk me. I felt bad after a few minutes and reached over for him and he yanked his pants down so fast I laughed until I saw his much larger hard dick in the moon light. For the first time I was aroused by his cock even more so than his fondling of mine. I moved closer to see it better and complimented him on how big he had grown. He said his was no bigger than mine so I positioned so we could hold them together. It was such a turn on seeing how much longer and thicker he was than me. As I returned to stroking him I was much closer to him and I was overcome with the desire to suck him. I resisted for a while and it just became too much so I went down on him. I thought he was going to have a heart attack. In no time he was about to come and warned me but I didn’t stop. After taking his load and continuing sucking I wondered what was next, fearful he would just crank up and drive home. I was on the verge of coming when I sat up and he down on me as I immediately came.
    There were no words spoken until he dropped me off at my house and he asked what I was doing tomorrow.
    We ended up sucking each other about 10 times over the next three days and kept up the secret for about five more years. I had lots of different women during that time and him, never another guy.
    Is that normal?

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    • Queer69

      This is very much like my intro to same sex . I love my wife and she tries to support my kinky weird fetishes like chasity and pegging. But nothing like being with your own sex.

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      • californiabob

        Yes, I'm older and now all I can think about is seeing other men,s cocks and wanting to suck them. he older I got the more desire I have to do it hopefully that somewhat normal if not I won't tell anybody.

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        • Biman458

          I feel the same way you do. I am totally fixated with cocks

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  • Abkp0069

    Did it when younger too. Never lost the desire. Started doing it again as I got older. Not romantically interested in men, just the cock. Enjoy having one in my mouth.perfectly normal. Hopefully will find one for my hole soon.

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    • Queer69

      I am in the same boat with you.

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  • Thedarknesssoonshallpass

    Completely normal bro. I am completely into women romantically, but, having a very early education and sexual relationship with a much older male relative taught me that sex with men can be great.

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    • 2weird

      Im a woman and can relate to your comment 100%

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    • Mrown

      Welcome in the club of varioriented people! Varioriented - your sexual orientation is different from your romantic orientation. I'm personally homosexual and biromantic.

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    • Joboo6

      Nice to hear from people that have the same orientation I guess. I could never be romantic with the guy I had but I sure enjoyed sucking his dick.

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      • californiabob

        I agree with you completely I'm married and older and now all I mostly think about is sucking another mans cock and having mine sucked as well. There are a lot of other people (men) doing it so maybe it's all part of an evolving life..

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        • Queer69

          I agree...ladies should relax and allow their men to explore with men. It's just a natural sexual drive without the complexity of romance. Just plain animalistic sex. He will be happier and still want her too both romantically and sexually.

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    • kriso4dl

      I agree

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  • Ellenna

    Bisexuality is totally normal

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  • loveity13

    I did the same when I was 16, tried suking a guy off. I liked it. Now many years later all I want is to suck more off!

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  • Luke77

    I to had sexual relationships with a guy in my teens and early 20. I’m a marry man now in my 40s and have a wife that is open minded and introduce dildo into are sex life its not the real thing but safe and fun

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    • Biman458

      Tried that already, she shot it down.

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  • BlindSpot

    You're married now. Remove the thought! Why do old people like to look back centuries ago and reminisce. No point.

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  • magic7

    I was married to a beautiful Swedish blonde Tina and we lived in our southern California campus community with plenty of people to play with. Our next-door neighbors were cute hung guys a blonde named Carl and a brunette named Jeff that were raving bisexuals. We suspected the guys were screwing each other on a daily basis because they were so horny. Carl had his eyes on me and Jeff had his eyes on Tina so after a frank discussion promising we would have no bad feelings committing homosexual acts and infidelity we ended up going for it and had a wild four-way. I was the oldest at 23 my wife was 21 and the guys were 19 with 8 inch cocks that always pointed towards the ceiling. The four of us drank some wine and smoked a few joints and then went to bed. The pot made us horny and before we know it I was French kissing Carl and Tina was French kissing Jeff. Carl was a cute Swedish guy with a shaved cock and a very sexy body which kept me rockhard the entire night. We moved into the 69 position and side-by-side sucking cock and Jeff ate pussy. It ended up being a wild night and my wife got her wish watching me take it in the ass.

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  • NYNY10

    Same scenario...I was 14 when my friend and I played around. Dabbled a little freshman year in college and then totally stopped until I got married. Have a video store near our house with many booths and glory holes. Go there maybe 3 times a year for mutual hj's Most recently alcohol broke the barrier and had a 3 way bj session in one of the booths....it was crazy surreal.

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  • JD777

    Normal? Apparently, it is normal for guys to have bi sex. But if married guys do it without the wife’s consent, that’s cheating.

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  • Columbusbiguy

    You need to do whatever you need to do for your own happiness. However be prepared for any ramifications if caught, and dont whine about it.

    I also think it is normal. When you were that age, bisexuality was not accepted. Trying to relive/reclaim your youth because it is more acceoted now. I get it.

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  • Lucille Ball once said, “I’d rather regret the things I have done than the things that I haven’t done.” Go ahead and do it....and have NO regrets, nor shame! Enjoy!

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    • californiabob

      I agree, it seems like when you get older you think about maybe what it would be like to suck another man's penis. There are so many men doing that I guess it's all part of life and maybe a normal desire.

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    • nikkiclaire

      That was a president babe lol.

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