I'd rather watch porn with a girl than have sex
i feel like it'd be more fun to be watching porn with a girl, even without masturbation than actually having sex, you'd still be crossing into a different boundary with them but it'd be so much less of permormance and more creative
after all the porn you like says so much about you, maybe more than you'd learn from normal sex unless you were really into roleplay, it would take way more careful matching up though because men and women tend to like way different kinds of porn, although most porn of girls for girls just looks like especially good porn to me