I cut up his sterns and foster

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ok so my boyfriend has a king size pillow top i cut up with a box cutter, i did it on a day i was home sick and he went to hang out with his friends ALL day. He still has no idea. sometimes i will get mad at him and be happy i did it. But over all i feel bad. I have always had a problem with wanting to break peoples stuff when i get upset with them. especially with him because he is so materialistic it sickens me. is this normal? is anyone else like this? ps this isnt the only thing i have destroyed of his its just an example.i also destroy my own stuff when im upset with myself.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Wow!
    It's like you didn't learn some basic stuff about how to act around and treat other people.
    You throw tantrums like a spoiled little girl who doesn't get her way.
    Instead of solving your problems in a constructive way (like an adult would), you lash out with violence and destruction.
    You seem very focused on how you feel and what you want, and have very little empathy for how you make others feel.

    I'm going to guess:
    You are probably someone who views most things in life with a black-or-white (good/bad) mentality?
    You have difficulties maintaining close relationships with people for long lengths of time?
    You probably feel like you are victimized a lot - more than other people?
    Feeling like a victim makes you feel powerless and that makes you angry.
    You are very sensitive to the way that others treat you?
    Your self-image can change from very positive to very negative in a short amount of time?
    When you aren't feeling angry, you most likely feel anxious?
    Any sort of criticism from others make you either extremely angry or very hurt - it's difficult to brush things off.
    You have a fear of abandonment?
    You can be very impulsive?
    You have chronic feelings of emptiness?

    You are not normal.
    It's a good thing you are in therapy.

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    • yourenottheonlyone
      13 years ago

      that's a lot of assumptions from only one of her situations in life being described. you don't know her personally and do not know anything about any other aspects of her life and personality.
      i personally think that destroying anothers property is going a little bit too far despite that the boyfriend didn't even stay home to look after her but making allthise assumptions about her is not right.

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      • DomBark
        13 years ago

        yeah, but its the truth.
        tbh, if shes like that, then why not judge her.

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  • r4mixon
    13 years ago

    It doesn't matter what people say your gonna defend yourself that you're right. Of course it's not normal. You alreay know that. You're just trying to justify wrong deeds to us and yourself. You could talk to him about it or break up with him. Notice how you never see or hear of anybody else doing these things? Except toddlers but that's because they havnt developed the ability to control their emotions. Kinda like you! You have serious problems. You need to find yourself before it's too late an you procreate and screw us all over.

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  • DoTheTaster
    13 years ago

    What a spoiled bitch...

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  • 343Boy
    13 years ago

    Limp Bizkit? LOL

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  • bang_bang_bang
    13 years ago

    haha, can someone say anger management?
    the worst ive done was punch out a window =/

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  • jasonapple
    13 years ago

    I once smashed a radio/cd player that I had. I still don't know why and I burned a shirt and I burned my phone. I wouldn't do that now though but I don't think badly of myself for having done it in the past. I broke someone's window too because I was mad at him. You need to talk things through and be listened to.

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  • randomjelly
    13 years ago

    Wow what a bitch!

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago

    Gidget, you might wanna go more often. Just think if someone destroyed your things, seemingly without reason. That's not respecting other people, or yourself for that matter.

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    • Gidget
      13 years ago

      i dont do it just to do it i do it when im upset its not without reason

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      • Uzzie101
        13 years ago

        You were "homesick" and he went to hang out with his friends? That's NOT A REASON TO BREAK HIS STUFF!
        Seek help, seriously, there IS something wrong here.

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  • r4mixon
    13 years ago

    Holy shit best comment ever ^ ! Hands down I'm dying hahaha. Nail on the head.

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    actually i do see a counselor every two weeks i know i may sound crazy and maybe i am but i just get so upset and vengeful

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  • LiamHale
    13 years ago

    Uh, that's seriously not healthy. See a psychologist.

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