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Okay, so whenever me and my boyfriend make plans and then it gets ruined, i start tearing up and getting really mad. Is crying normal when plans get ruined with your boyfriend?
Do you do this infront of him? You're going to end up driving him away and I can only imagine how you'll react then =/ you should enjoy the relationship, sigh at the hiccups and get on with it.
If it's his fault and he does it all the time then that's a different situation, if not you seriously need to calm down. Being a woman I know how insane we are lol but it's not good, I actually feel sorry for men sometimes.
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Ya their right cause im a guy and i really really loved this girl and she would make all these plans and like 6 out of 8 times she will always flop and that pissed me off soooooooooooooo dam much i wouldnt cry but im a guy im guessing ur more sensitive but it would really piss me off enough to fight anyone but plus i was 16 so maybe age does that too but if it happens alot just let it go, i stop caring and i felt way better when it didnt happen i would just get busy and chill with homies so just dont cancel everything for that "date" just incase cause then u can forget about it with ur friends
Well unless it's a really big deal, something very important to you, like new year's, graduation ceremony or whatnot, no, it's not really normal. It's normal to get a little bit upset, but not as much as to start a crying fit. That's awfully juvenile IMO. You may have some anger management problems.
Chaosdragon1, that is AWESOME! You hit the nail on the head. On a serious note... If you are an adult and feeling this way often, then i would recommend some professional help. It would imply an inability to cope and could have a negative impact on your relationship. Good luck and God bless.
inability to cope=spoiled brat that didnt get enuff spankings as a child and always got her way, now in the real world if things dont go her way and her doormat doesnt conform to her plans she throws a tantrum, pouts and makes everyone's lives miserable around her.