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I literally have no friends, I eat lunch by myself at school, I've been fired from two jobs and I'm in love with my ex who has zero contact with me. I cry myself to sleep every night cause I'm so upset that I turned out to be such a loser...I cry for a good two hours every night till I fall asleep ...IIN???
You're not a loser. We all have bad things happen to us and sometimes they seem to all happen at the same time and and we get overwhelmingly depressed.
What Tripw7 said "You need to get some help from a Dr. or religious person that understands what help is appropriate for your situation." There are good people out there who care & are willing to help you. Believe me when I say your situation is temporary. I once suffered from depression as well. It does get better. Good Luck.
I seriously feel so bad after reading this shit.
Look you don't know me and you don't have to, but just know I'm here. And I would be more than happy to help you with anything I can do for you.
You are not alone.
I care if no one else does. Remember that.
It is normal to feel down, but it isn't normal to feel this way all the time.
It sounds like you may be depressed. The problem with depression is that the only way you can overcome it is to get out there and distract yourself from it. It's hard, but you must remember that you have many talents and good qualities and just because you feel down now, doesn't mean it won't get better. Never forget that no one is perfect, even if they appear to be. Find your self one person you can confide in, and they can support you.
My goodness, you need some love. Just hang in there, you will find some. Go to a therapist until then.
Sounds just like me. I've been like this before and I've tried to commit suicide. But it was in vain because I thought of my family, friends and other precious things in my life. My advice to you is if you like being alone better than being friends, than it's not a problem. It's okay to be alone too sometimes, for a moment until you get a peace of mind. Btw, whatever your belief is, stay closed to God and have faith in Him. Nothing lasts forever. We're just being tested in this world. Be strong luv!
You need to understand that things will get better. Either high school is the best it will ever get for someone (like a sports star) or it is a pretty unpleasant and difficult time. You are be thrown in with people you have absolutely nothing in common with, other than your age and place of residence, which will not be the same after high school. In college, you'll have people sharing some classes that are chosen, therefor they will have similar interests to yours.
Hang in there, I know it doesn't help much right now, but really, things will get better.
And dude, trust me, high school girls suck; you'll have plenty of much better girls in your life. Forget the ex.
I got fired from my first job as a kid because I flipped off the manager through a security camera when I discovered they had been remarking my work hours as less than they really were. I have never gone into another burlington coat factory since.
That's not healthy. You need to talk to someone who will be sympathetic, like a doctor or counsellor of some sort. You don't have to be in this much pain, it's not a normal state.
You need to get some help from a Dr. or religious person that understands what help is appropriate for your situation.
Weird.. You reply and my reply on your reply seem to be removed?
You said my comment made you cry because you thought nobody gave a fuck about you right?
My response to that is; We do! I do! They do!
You will be okay, I promise!!
I'm here for you, I'm Jayy.
If someone asks you who your friends are just say; Jayy!!
Now I want you to promise me one thing, okay? Tonight when you go te sleep, smile for me :)
Ignore him. The clue's in his name.
This isn't a normal state to be in. You've been through a lot of stress and maybe you need to find someone to help.
Tell me, do you do anything to take your mind off of this? Any hobbies?
Don't worry so much, you're not a loser. Lots of people have a tough time in high school and turn out differently in adulthood. You're not going to be stuck there with no friends forever, same goes with girls. You'll meet plenty of people you can make friends with sooner than you think.