I cried the first time i had sex
is it normal to cry on ur first time
the feeling of orgasm was beyond my imagination
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CozmoWank
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Electra
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[Old Memory]
It happened to me a couple of times coz it was so intense and transcendental.
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Boojum
I'm not a woman, so I can't speak from personal experience, but my understanding is that how women experience orgasms can vary quite a bit. When physical sensations, emotional state and the setting all align perfectly, they can be absolutely cosmic. Other orgasms may feel like only a release of physical tension - pleasurable, but nothing astonishing. Most will probably fall somewhere between those two extremes.
You will experience orgasms in the way that's normal for you. Maybe what you experienced the first time is the norm for you, or maybe that will prove to the be the most amazing orgasm you ever experience, but it's probably more likely you'll experience even better ones as you get more practice. Try not to think about that too much, and just be in the moment when you're having sex.
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Pumpurrnickel
I guess it's normal. Though most people definitely didn't have such a powerful orgasm that they cried.
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Boojum
Maybe not normal in the sense that it happens to everyone, but orgasm releases a burst of pretty powerful hormones, and it's not unknown for women to become emotionally overwhelmed.
Guys can freak out when this happens (I speak from experience), so I hope the guy you were with was sensitive enough to care, and you reassured him that it was okay.
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Anonymous Post Author
yes he did freak out he thought he hurt me , but give me detail on your experience :D
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Boojum
I won't bore you with all the details (and one occasion was many years ago, so I don't entirely trust my memory of it), but I've had three women burst into tears in the middle of sex.
All the women had many years of sexual experience, so it wasn't like what happened to you in that sense. Also, the relationships were all long-term, so there was an emotional aspect to what was going on. Each time, the tears started after lengthy and intense sex, during which they'd had several orgasms. I think it just kept building and building until it got so intense that all their inhibitions melted away. One of the women was just as confused as you seem to have been, but the others understood that it was just about feeling overwhelming love and pleasure and joy.
And, yeah, I did have a WTF moment the first time, and my reaction was the same as your guy's. Afterwards, I thought it was pretty cool. Not that I get off on making women cry or anything. It just seemed pretty great that we connected so strongly and what we'd been doing affected her so deeply.
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CDmale4fem
Either you cried from not believing you just gave your V-card away, or he was hung like a horse, or you were just over"cum" with emotions after your orgasm. Since females are a lot more emotional about things like that. Guys on the other hand could have sex and not even want to know or ask her name. Most guys are just slurs like that. I know, I used to be one actually. (Believe it or not, lol)
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CDmale4fem
I used to be one of those guys that didn't even need to know a girls name to go have sex with with her, is all I meant by that.
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Carlton03
He’s not a rapist Christ!!! How can you accuse someone of rape based on not knowing a girls name? God damn :-(
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CDmale4fem
Not only no, but HELL NO. I was sexually assaulted the last few months I was in the military. I know how it feels to feel like something has been taken from you as well as when you tell them no, they just didn't care. All they wanted was their own personal gratification. I have dealt with depression off and on for the last 30 years and have had issues trying to keep a steady job without getting a "talking to" about attendance. So "Am I a rapist,?" fuck no. I appreciate and for the most part respect women. Years back I may have gone to a bar and met a lady and we went and had sex without knowing each others name. Nothing wrong with being anonymous .
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