I couldn't get a full erection my second time in bed, is it normal?

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This was my first time (with her), we were both drunk, I always liked her but we've never dated. One day, before she leaves the country forever, we got really drunk and then had sex.. But even tho she's always been my crush and my best friend, it was totally weird for me to be in bed with her.. I know i realy wanted it to happen but i just couldn't get a full erection, and i obviously didnt came.. Is it normal?

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago

    The alcohol, because she's your friend, because you felt weird about it? Yeah just because you can get aroused by something doesn't mean you should fuck it and maybe you realized that and that's why you couldn't get hard. For me at least I would feel weird about hooking up with a friend. The timing sounds like it sucks to start a sexual relationship if she's leaving.

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  • ThisIsImpossible
    9 years ago

    How drunk were you? In Texas many of us have a problem we call whiskey dick.

    Or was it just because it was weird? If so I'd recommend more alcohol haha.

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  • Demarcus
    8 years ago

    On drinking, refer to the master:
    "William Shakespeare — 'it provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance'"

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  • maybeweird
    9 years ago

    totally normal. happened to me the first couple times I had sex with my wife to be at the time.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    9 years ago

    The alcohol can also have an effect on that as well.

    Although being drunk does lower your inhibitions, as you increase your intake it degrades your body's ability to perform.

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  • Unimportant
    9 years ago

    There were a couple of studies, which I found interesting. They found out that sometimes men fail to achieve an erection because they are too fond of their partner, in the sense that they wouldn't want to do something as dirty as fucking to them. Weird and messed up, I think, and yet interesting.

    I am not saying that that's what has happened to you. Just a bit of information.

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    • paulr
      9 years ago

      As strange as that sounds I believe it can happen & it's actually happening to me now in a way.

      I recently started a post on here about having feelings for an adult cam model.
      I originally joined that site for, um, "fun" then really started to click when talking to one particular girl while her cam wasn't working properly & her room was quiet.
      We've beentalking for a long time & now I actually find watching her more frisky shows (which are pretty tame by cam site standards) a turn-off, despite the fact she is so damn attractive.
      I've realized it's because I actually have feelings for her & don't want to see or treat her as an object anymore.
      As I told her that isn't the way I like to treat girls I actually care about.

      Yeah, I'm pretty fucked up I know...

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  • domv69lv
    9 years ago

    Everyone can act like they bang it out at will. Most young guys can. It could have been the alchohol, or cigs or any of a hundred things. Specially if you're 35 or older. It will happen more than once in your life. Dont trip.

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  • poon_jabber
    9 years ago

    think about her when u spank it, so you're practicing for next time

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