I consulted a psychic because i suspected husband cheating? normal?

Think about it: if psychics really have the power to know what strangers were thinking and doing, or to predict the future, why do you think you had no problems finding four willing to talk to you for a few bucks? If you had those powers, don't you think you could find a more profitable way to use them?

Your husband's behaviour has altered lately, so something seems to have changed in his life. Maybe he is messing around. Maybe he's getting a load of crap at work, he's worried about losing his job, and he's sleeping and avoiding your kids because he can't face up to that fact. Maybe he's doing those things because he's been diagnosed with a terminal illness and he's doing the typical guy thing of carrying on and not talking about it. Maybe he's depressed. Maybe he's having a "What the fuck am I doing with my life?" crisis.

Maybe he's just wondering why the hell he's working his butt off for a suspicious wife and annoying kids who want to play stupid board games when he just wants to zone out after a day at work.

This much is certain: you're not going to get any answers about what's going on with him here or from a psychic. You need to talk to him (without any kids or other distractions around), tell him you're worried about what's going on because you've noticed he's behaving differently, and ask him what's going on.

He doesn't sound like he's cheating necessarily. Assuming so by default just because some signs are in line with people who do cheat is incredibly simple minded.

Talk to him properly about your fears. All the things you think and said here, tell him that. Tell him you're scared of these things, don't just accuse him of them. Accusing him will just upset him.

Fyi, all of those psychics are evil pieces of shit making money over the backs of those who are suffering.

Feelings aren't facts. It's plausible he's just tired after working long hours and needs to catch up on sleep. Especially if he also just started trying to exercise, he would actually be more tired.

If he seems distant it might be because you're acting suspicious of him even after he told you no and wept in front of you. The man sounds like he's under stress and if you push him he's just going to go further away - which will also affect your kids negatively. Listening to 3 of 4 psychics who tell you what you want to hear is going to mess up your relationship and your kids lives. Find actual verifiable proof or drop it and trust him. You could also try just being supportive, like going to jog with him or asking him why he's been sleeping so much from a place of genuine concern. It makes a humongous difference to feel supported instead of scrutinized.

He is probably cheating, the signs are all there, and you don't have to be psychic to know that. Maybe save your money for a private investigator, and or a good lawyer instead of a psychic.!

If he is in fact cheating, which he probably is, I hope you clean his clock in the divorce!