I constantly think about dying

necause deep inside your so worried about everything you have not done in ;life you wish you could do, time is short and something in the past or some event has made you realize it short and very prescious, and your afraid if you keep lving liek an everyday person go to work and struggle to survive ou will miss out on everything you want to do, and die only doing the things you are told you must do, i have these thoughts to, and it gets disturbing because then i question things i shouldn't be questioning and i know i will never get the answer to, but curiosity always gets to me somehow, i bet sometimes you not only think about dying but how you would die how you would react what would happen to those around you when your time stops does the world stop are you reincarnated is there heaven is there hell how do you know where you will end up. ;. . . what if the choices you made in life led you to the wrong life you wanted do what i did, put headphones listen to Gary Jules Mad World, listen to the melody the voice the lyrics f it doesn't help then I'm sorry but it helps me from time to time i assure you of this. . .

i kind of think about dying too. i mean think about it?
we dont know about life beyond our own?
we domnt know when were going to die? or how?
and it bothers me, i bet it bothers you too.
it just bothers me not to know so much about something so extremely important
:)

I'm a 36 year old father of four and evidently, not as big of a sissy as I've always assumed I was before realizing so many other intelligent people have similar problems. Like most of you, I'll often find myself being consumed by thoughts of death and more-so a fear of the unknown. If I'm alone and allow myself to dwell on it, I can quickly sink into a panic attack, while little else in this world can rattle me. It gets so bad that I have to deliberately think about something else. Worst is when I'm really enjoying life with my kids in some terrific moments and then I fear losing all of it - for eternity... Seems like a cruel joke (being given life that is) but suppose you could think of it as an amazing gift too. What's supposed to make you feel better often makes me feel worse - like how when you go to sleep, you do so peacefully and are not guaranteed you'll wake up, yet you always have so you should think of death similarly - try not worry and just convince yourself you'll wake up. Or even better - when people tell you to think about the eternity that existed prior to your birth - which quite frankly just depresses me more :) It's the raw intensity of this fear that actually drives me away from any real capacity for faith in God - because I clearly see in these moments the desperate need/motive/desire to create and believe in an afterlife. I'm sure that we as a race have had this primal fear from the moment we were capable of contemplating such things. However - this doesn't mean that there isn't something after we die because I think everyone should be open to that possibility. In fact, for you scientists out there, remember that a requirement for scientific laws is that they hold open the possibility that they could be wrong. And given the evidence of intelligent design behind the universe (e.g. ratio of phi found throughout the earth and our own galaxy among many other commonalities), in addition to the fact that if our universe were to have expanded one millionth of a second faster than it did, grey matter/gravity would not have been strong enough to hold it together and form galaxies/stars/planets. Conversely, had it expanded one millionth of a second slower, the same forces would have been to great and it would have collapsed back upon itself. Pretty lucky I'd say! So who knows?! No one can prove it, but even science has it's limits!
I guess what I really want is to know that I'm special - more than a blink in the eye of eternity. But I don't want that being the reason I blindly believe in something I can only say at this point that I'm open to acknowledging its potential, and desperately hoping for its reality. One thing we should all take solace in is that were all in it together. I think sites like this where people can relate and share our deepest fears and talk about what really matters, along with the love of family and friends, is what makes life worth living - regardless of an afterlife.

hi i am having these thoughts too they only just stared a month ago i thought it would just pass but its constant now i do'nt know why

I do this too. The thought of life being taken out of my eyes makes me cringe.

i do this too im so scared of goin to hell

It's fairly common for people to think about death, and even fantasize about how they're going to die, unless you mean that you're actually suicidal in which case you should go see a psychiatrist or any other mental health professional ASAP.

i dont know if its normal, but i do too. i have an obsession with public massacres. who knows. i just got on meds for my worries.