I cheated on my girl friend with my best friend

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Okay so. Im 21 years old and i have been in a relationship for the last 7 years of my life. I love my girlfriend i really do. And i can never live without her. Ever since we got together we have been in a long distance relationship, after the first year we broke up. But we got back together. We always did. The only problem is that although being in a relationship i havebeen cheating on my girlfriend withmy friend for the past 4 years. The both of us have had a sexting relation ship going on for the past 4 years (disgusting sick and cheap i know) i didnt feel anything for my friend other than just friendship but i dont really know why i did it. I always liked it and in the innitial years i told my friend that i cared for her as more than a friend and that i didnt knkw what this was. I still dont understand why we even started this but it was hard to stop. I wanted to stop this for the past 2 years but i never had enough guts to hurt my friend by being honest with her and telling her that i never felt anything towards her. So now i finally told my girlfriend and she broke up with me. To get back with her i left my friend because i think there is a chance she might come back to me if i do so. The problem is my friend is also a friend of my girlfriend is maybe ex girlfriend. My friend also developed feelings for me since i used to tell her i liked her as more than a friend. So i hurt both my friend and my girlfriend. I feel really guilty because dispite everything i did i really did care for my friend and i did love my girlfriend. So whart should i do? Do i leave my friend and try to make amends with my girl friend or leave them both or just leave my girl friend and stay friends with my friend

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  • Fall_leaves
    8 years ago | pl

    You don't deserve either of them. Four years being unfaithful to the girl you supposedly love? If you really loved her you would let her move on and let her find someone who deserves her love. And unless you want to be single for the rest of your life and remain friends with the girl you cheated with then I would suggest you end your "friendship" too. No girl would be okay with you staying friends with the girl you cheated with and you shouldn't expect them to.

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    • Malay1234
      8 years ago

      What if the girl i cheated with still wajts to be friends but i dont want to be her friend. Not for my sake but hers

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      • Fall_leaves
        8 years ago

        The only reason she would want to remain friends is because she wants more and once you start dating another girl she'll try to intervene in your next relationship.

        Are you delusional there is no saving your relationship, it's one thing to cheat one time but after four years there is no repairing that kind of damage. You took advantage of someone that trusted you and for that you're a piece of shit.

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        • Malay1234
          8 years ago

          She wont get involved in my next one she's not like that. In fact there will be no next one

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          • rightkindofpasta
            8 years ago

            If she wasn't like that, then she wouldn't have gotten involved in the first one. What both of you did was extremely cruel. You've got yourself into a tough situation here, and really there's no move you can make that wouldn't hurt either one of them as far as I know. Hopefully you'll learn from this.

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          • Fall_leaves
            8 years ago

            Hey I was just being hard on you because I've been cheated on.

            Everyone makes mistakes just don't let them define you, learn from it and you'll be a better person for it.

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            • Malay1234
              8 years ago

              No its cool. I deserve it.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago

    Disgusting and vile.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    What's all this "can't live without her" crap? Is she your lungs or what?

    Time you grew up and accepted that a relationship which began when you were 14 was always extremely unlikely to last, especially when you were cheating on her.

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  • Wolverine99
    8 years ago

    evaluate her worth and make a decision.

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    my dad used to say"the only broads who don't cheat are paralysed for life." I don't agree f.y.i. (for your information.)

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  • IamYu
    8 years ago

    If you really consider yourself as considerate person,please make an effort to apologize to them and tell them the truth.You must know that something can't hide forever.You will have to pay the price for what you have done or you can run away forever but I think you will regret for the sins you recall.Why on Earth we have this kind of human being? Selfish fagot.

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    • Malay1234
      8 years ago

      I did tell my furlfriend the truth. She broke up with me obviously. But to get back with her i had to leave my friend the one i was cheating on with her. And to do that i had to blame her for everything. I told my gf that she was responsible for everything and that she started it. I basically told her that i never came clean because i was afraid she would tell. I was also afraid to let my friend go because i thought if i upset her she'd open her mouth. But she's not like that and i really hurt her alot.

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  • Steve2!
    8 years ago

    Yeah, whatever. It's really not important.

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  • damarixa12
    8 years ago

    You disgusting pig. Leave both of them alone.

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  • hellombernal21
    8 years ago

    Grow up focus on your self and you will find the right person forget the past and move on. You never loved them you just played with them. now you have no one so you want one of them back. Life doesnt work like that

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  • Malay1234
    8 years ago

    Wouldnt it be unfair to the girl i cheated with to just ditch her like that? To save my relation? I know its a dick of a move but i need my girl in my life. But i have always cared for my friend

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    I give you respect for being with the same girl from the time you were 14. It's totally understandable to cheat in your situation.

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    • Malay1234
      8 years ago

      Am i right to leave my friend?

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      • 53739
        8 years ago

        Yes it's okay don't feel bad

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        • Malay1234
          8 years ago

          What if my friend wants to stay friebds with me?

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  • Statsmashers
    8 years ago

    The saying is
    If you cant Fuck it or eat it or play with it , piss on it and walk away.

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