I cheated on my fiance and dont know if i should tell him

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I am getting married in two months and I went on a girls holiday abroad and met and slept with a another guy. I was on a foursome with my friend who I went along with to make sure she was okay, but when we got back to the two guys hotel, my friend went to bed with the guy she had met and me and his friend started just kissing and stuff but we ended up having sex and us sleeping together.
My friend has told me not to tell my fiance about it but I am wracked with guilt. Should I tell him, I love him so much. I couldn't barely to lose him because of a stupid mistake.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    You will live with that guilt for the rest of your life. Difficult question to answer, do you say nothing and hope it never comes out in the future that you cheated on him, imagine the guilt feeling everyone you have sex with him or if he loves so much, as obviously he does if he want to marry you, then tell him now before it is too late and hope that the love between the two of you can overcome your stupid mistake. Personally i couldn't live without telling him, if he loves you so much it will be hard for him to take the news but then you have the time to repair the damage before he finds out later once you are married. I assume you are on the pill so there won't be any surprises, would also get yourself checked out before the wedding to make sure you have not contracted anything as I assume you had bareback sex.

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    • charlie92
      6 years ago

      No I wasnt on the pill and it was bare back so I will take your advice and also I did a test and I'm not pregnant (hopefully)

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  • Missypoo
    6 years ago

    First of all get tested for more than pregnancy....stds are alive and spreading. Don't tell him that shit unless its concerning his health. What happens in vegas stays in vegas! I hope you got the shit outta ya system.....

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  • devon_113
    6 years ago

    it's only true if u believe it to be, don't think about it, plus if u tell him it's doom.... he can only be hurt if he knows

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  • Janex1
    6 years ago

    Keep it to yourself.

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  • charlie92
    6 years ago

    I did say that I may not tell him but if I did, I think that he may just call the marriage off.
    Weve been together for three years and I don't want to throw what we have away.
    What would you do, are you in a relationship?

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  • charlie92
    6 years ago

    The cowardly thing would be not to tell him but I know that I didn't set out to betray him. I'd been drinking and I did say no, but he was worked up and once he'd gone so far, I just went along and allowed it to happen. Ive got to think about it but I may just not tell him.

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  • Jokinq
    6 years ago

    Sure, you could tell him, break his heart. Or you could tamper with your moral compass a bit and the guilt will fade.

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