I cheat on my boyfriend but dont feel guilty or weird about it.

Me and my boyfriend have a great relationship! I love every aspect about it. He is an amazing guy, and I am happy with everything except for the sex. We dont have as much sex as I would like, and its not my boyfriends fault. We are both busy, but he is more busy. Sometimes, when Im in the mood for sex,and he is unavailable I will sleep with this other guy who is really hot. I know its shallow, but to me it really means nothing. Its just a way to get off, thats all. My boyfriend has no clue, and I dont feel guilty or weird about it. It does NOT affect our relationship. Is this normal?

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  • halo

    don't listen to these idiots who say they hope you die. IT IS NOT NORMAL TO WISH DEATH ON A PERSON YOU'VE NEVER MET AND HAS DONE NOTHING PERSONALLY TO YOU. your feelings will catch up with u tho

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  • Cobrakitnu

    Well. That's obviously not very nice. But yes, it's pretty normal.

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  • roni88

    U are very inmature! I think u shouldnt comment back cuz u just come out as more inmature evry single time. Just dump the guy and date ur fuck budy

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  • georgienne

    You don't have to be physically a teenager to act like one. You're lacking the control that, as an adult, you should have.
    It doesn't matter what you work, but like any boyfriend I imagine you'll be out to dinners, events, and the like which I you'll likely suspect him to help pay for.
    If you're cheating, won't tell him and don't care, why are you in it. Hopefully the next guy is the best sex and the best partner, or he turns out to be not-so-great and you realise where you went completely wrong.
    I don't know what kind of response you wanted on here,

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  • aduusw

    There are plenty of sluts in the world so I guess it's normal

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    You're complaining about the sex being bad... while you're cheating on him.

    There's your problem.

    The sex will NEVER be good if you're too busy spending your time and energy on other men instead of building up your relationship.

    Your behavior is the problem.

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  • Whoa you guys are giving her some harsh shit. Wishing she would die? Wow real mature. But on the other hand cheating is a fucking terrible thing to do! You have to tell your boyfriend what you've been doing. You obviously don't deserve him.

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  • 8Serene8

    Whore.

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  • SATC

    Buy a vibrator.

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  • jenjen06

    How can you say he's amazing, cheat on him, and not feel nothing? I think my boyfriend is amazing and I feel a little guilty just talking to ex boyfriends about anything. I know that's probably a little extreme for me but how can you cheat on him and not even feel bad? My boyfriend and I gave the same problem about both of us being busy and him bring busier but if you're horny have sex with your boyfriend, he deserves better than someone who cheats on him just because you have busy schedules

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  • TyLee

    I don't think that you are a bad person. Sex is an important part of a relationship so I understand where you are coming from.

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  • TT22

    Yes totally normal. I once did it.
    No biggie

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  • BubblyWubbly18

    you're such a slut.all you want is just sex.just dump your bf.he deserves better

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  • DhGlory

    It doesn't affect the relationship because he doesn't know... If he knew and were not entirely retarded he would split up with you in an instant. You honestly sound like an utter cunt. I hope he finds out somehow and destroys you both verbally and physically, no room in this world for people like you; male or female.

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  • spoon4d

    it would be okay if your lover was a dildo but WHAT THE FUCK!!! WHY WOULD CHEAT ON YOUR FUCKING BOYFRIEND IF YOU FUCKING LIKE HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    THATS EXACTLY WHY IM GOING TO MARRY A FUCKING CATHOLIC WOMAN! even though im an ATHEIST !!

    AND I LIKE RHINOS ! < YEAH I LIKE RHINOS !!!

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  • jakeomaniac

    You should at least ask him. If he doesn't say that it's okay, dump him at least. There have been WAY too many people that killed themselves for this very reason. I am almost friendless because of it. Either dump him and let him know why, or learn to be satisfied with your fingers and a vibrator. Damn it, how would you feel if you had devoted everything to a person, only to find out that they cheated on you?

    Gah, being dramatic here. Been through this on the other side of the stick. Only the girl slept with my cousin instead. Kinda feels worse, ya know?

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  • Petrovic

    Whoa, guys and ladies, please be nice. We're all here to help each other and calling each other names or saying hateful things is not why this site was created. If you need an outlet to rage I'm sure you can find it elsewhere.

    I think your boyfriend deserves to know what is going on. If you really like him and respect him, then you wouldn't want him to be doing the same thing to you behind your back would you? Of course not. It is very DISrespectful to him and your actions are purely a betrayal of his trust in you. How about this: tonight at dinner tell him what you have been doing. He deserves THAT much! He deserves to make the choice to forgive you or to drop you! You are purely being selfish if you do not allow him the opportunity to make that choice. BE ACCOUNTABLE for your choices young lady! Good luck to you!

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  • roni88

    Simple as this u are a sex addict and this cheating thing will caught up w u. Just tell ur bf if he is amazing he might understand. If you 2 love each other then u might b able to wrk it out. Also get a vibrator!!!

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  • rayst

    How can you justify cheating on your bf because he's too busy and doesnt fuck you enough?!? If you're unsatisfied with the relationship even though you spoke to him about it, you should leave him. And i was harsh on you because im a good honest guy like your bf and ive been in fucked up relations like yours. Bitches should stay with dogs.

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  • luckynj

    It raise one question in my mind. Is women has more sex desire than men? although women is more shy in expressing her sex desire but interested more in sex than their male partners. Is it normal behavior? Comments from both male and females.

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  • BoredGuy

    I so much want your bf to find out somehow... keep up us updated, out of curiosity I wanna know how much of dumbfck pussy ^he is!!!

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  • BfingIToucher

    I wouldn't call this love. When you love someone you can imagine how he would feel if you hurt him. You have empathy. You would do anything to keep this person from pain. You honor this person with respect, which you are far from doing. The other posters are right -- your behavior is incredibly immature. Even if he never finds out what you are doing, you are damaging your relationship, cheapening this "love" you say you have for him. If he were cheating on you (and perhaps he is, if he is similar to you) would you feel betrayed and would he feel regret?

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  • helenjewett

    you're kind of a bitch.
    tell your boyfriend so he can dump you asap.

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  • georgienne

    You can't have a relationship that lacks sex? Seriously? Are you sixteen?

    I've gone ages without, by choice and with my boyfriend away. I'm not the biggest fan of sex, but just knowing that if we had the time we'd enjoy sex is good enough for me.
    This is so childish. Leave if you aren't bothered to commit to a guy who's probably too busy to have sex with you because he's working to fund your future. Poor bloody guy.

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  • LunaLaFortuna

    you should break up. if you feel nothing about your affairs you don't really love him

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  • georgienne

    This is so immature. Really? A great relationship won't suffice because you can't have sex? Grow up.
    I'm surprised the guys dating a child like you.

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  • howaminotmyself

    It's okay to not feel guilty about these things but you should tell him. You are not being fair to him. And who knows, maybe he will approve. Just don't lie.

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  • rayst

    If you are serious i hope you will die in horrible pain

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  • thatsfunnyshit

    Perfectly normal. If you are hot, please pm me. LOL

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