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I end up cheating on all my boyfriends within a few months. I guess when I go out I have too good of a time and end up not controlling myself. I am 26 and at this point I feel I want a long term relationship but it never seems to work out. Maybe when I'm 30 or so I'll mellow out but at this point it's not working for me.
Seconded.
Although it seems like there might be a slight fear of committment, it's really difficult to say. I've been in an open relationship for a year now and haven't fooled around with anyone else, and I never really cheated before I accepted that I was polyamorous... I only did that once, it's not a good excuse but I was in an abusive relationship and in a really bad mental state.
I think maybe you are not mature enough for commitment. This is not to be mean but to be honest. It isn't fair for the men you are dating and if you cannot restrain from seeing other men while you are with one, then perhaps you don't need to be with anyone at all. Try making friends with benefits or just being with someone you just play around with but are not serious with. When you start a relationship with someone, it is expected that you stay faithful as you would want someone to do the same for you. My suggestion is, don't get into anymore relatinships because you are not ready for one, and if it comes that you find someone that you know you can stary committed to, then go for it, but if you feel the urge to cheast, it's best that you break up and spare him because it truly isn't right what you are doing to these guys.
You're just exploring your options really. It sounds to me as if you are trying to figure out what you like and you can't find that just by being with one person. Stay single for awhile and then when you find someone that you like, I guess you work everything out from there.
No, it is not normal. You are a whore and the reason most men have trust issues.
Automatically calling a woman a whore just because she dares to have a sex drive and cheat. = SHOULD BE Automatically calling a woman a whore just because she dares to experiment sexually in the same way men are encouraged to (And have a sex drive).
Infidelity is shitty, regardless. Do read the other post I made too, though.
Uhm, no. Men are not encourage to act like that. Stop using men as an excuse for your shitty behavior. Both men and women can be sluts, using the other as an excuse just makes you dumb. Oh, and lying to someone and cheating on them isn't "sexual experimentation". It just makes you a whore.
Automatically calling a woman a whore just because she dares to have a sex drive and cheat.
What about men that cheat?! (Having said this, women are infinitely more likely to cheat, in my experience).
If a man is allowed to play around (and indeed, is positively encouraged to), why are women told that they are dirty just for thinking about kissing or masturbating?!
Why is it that women are expected to be sweet, innocent, opinion-less, simple creatures who look pretty, smile and clean up after men and women before popping out child after child after child; while men are expected to be aggressive, hate anything pink or feminine, not display any emotion and be hunks who rescue damsels in distress?
Have a look at everydaysexism.com, follow them on Twitter and Facebook too.
Yes, the majority of sexism that is complained about on these pages is written by females, but they actually have a huge male following too.
How would you feel if your wife/girlfriend owned a house/car or had bought it with her own money but the sales assistant only talked to you, even if you knew nothing about this house/car?
With a bit of luck, you'll get why your disbelief at being called sexist has got me so damn angry.
I really appreciate all your comments! Your collective incompetence helps me remember to hate All of humanity. Every time I hear humans arguing, I want to blow my brains out. I'm just waiting for the government to go from house to house and kill us all. Everyone left will be raped, abused, and tortured to death by Satan and his forces!
I have cheated in every relationship I've had (with both genders).
I always fall for the monogamous ones or the ones who are unhealthily fixated with love and romance.
I've been like this since I was 16 and I know it's not going to go away even though I am now coming up to 25.
I'll be 30 in 5 years time and I need to experiment sexually - with other people, I think - as much as possible before I'm too old to get away with doing so.
That's not an excuse to cheat on someone. You're just a whore trying to make excuses for yourself.
What if I told you not everyone in the world needs to be in a relationship?
I'm simply pointing out, not everyone who has sex with multiple partners is a whore.
It's wrong to cheat, I'm not denying that. But I think that makes them insensitive, rather than "whores"
Thank you for putting what I wanted to say so eloquently.
However, it's impossible to get through to thick-headed, nonheterophobic, sexist Nazis.
They claim to be all about honour for their country, but then talk about beating the "street" out of black people and calling gay people "fags".
The funny thing is that NATIVE AMERICAN INDIANS were not white!
Don't get in a relationship, dumbass. Make it clear to the guy he is just one of many sex buddies and you'll call him when you need to him to drive his suv in and out of your stretched out distended snatch.