I caught her cheating

I ain't sharing my woman with NO man! Sick unfortunate bastards and sluts. I know-live and let live!

shes a ho dude. dont even think about getting married to a girl like that. SHES CHEATING ON YOU MORON! get a fuckin life and a decent girlfriend.

can you give me somewhere to start swinging? me and my boyfriend want to start this..

I get turned on watching my wife with other men, she also gets turned on watching me with other women. We have never met with others in secret, we always get approval from each other befor we "play" with any one else. We belong to a swingers club, but we were together for fifteen years and had built a strong loving relationship befor we started swinging. It is compleetly normal to get turned on by the thought of you girl friend/wife having sex with other men. but I think she needs to know that you know. She should not be doing it behind your back. In order for a open relationship to work you both need to be honest with and trust each other.

I would say she continues to see this guy due to what he has to offer. I think she may do you on the same day to get over what little guilt she has. I would tell her the fact that you know about this before you decide to marry her and then ask why she does it. If you have no problem with what her answer might be and as long as the both of you are okay with it then it's fine.

You like what she does, she likes what she does. Sounds great to me. Talk to her about it and tell her you're ok with it. She probably knows or suspects that you know. Sounds like you should encourage her.

I have to agree with the last two comments said!! lol

Yeah, I don-t know what-s up with that. Is it a problem+ I get turned on when my gf flirts or when I fancy seeing her cheating on me. whats wrong with me

I'm married and I'm insanely turned on by this too. I think there are millions of guys like us. We just don't talk about it in public.

I found out that my wife had been unfaithful a few years ago. At first, it was horrible. It was especially bad when I found emails she was writing to another man where they were telling each other how much they loved each other. I was devastated and I couldn't believe my wife was "that kind of woman."

However, over the course of a few weeks, my horror turned into fascination. I started thinking just how sexy and bold and beautiful my wife was and how exciting it was that she was having affairs. I can't explain it. All I know is that it made her incredibly beautiful in my eyes to know she was being unfaithful. When I was with her, I'd very often have this thought about how her pussy was being shared with other men, how it might have another guy's cum in it. I'd be aware of her pussy between her legs all the time, which would make me horny and loving. I couldn't believe that I no longer felt pain or jealousy, only pleasure, and I no longer wanted it any other way.

Trying to talk to her about it was another matter. At first, she denied it and became extremely beligerent. She claimed I was "beating up on her." It took a long time for us to get on the same wavelength, but we finally did. Now she flirts with other men in front of me and I help her get ready for dates. She hasn't had sex in front of me yet. The closest I get is a photo of her with her arms around her date, sometimes kissing. A few times I've seen her kissing another man, which is beautiful. The best is when she comes home with her pussy sloppy from a lover.

I agree with jason above. But you should have a real heart to heart about relational limits and expectations, because if this continues after your married you may become too jealous. Also talk frankly to a lawyer and get a pre-nup including this.

It is totally normal to get turned on by your girlfriend with other guys thousands do.
You should tell her you know and all have fun together i bet she would love a threesome with 2 guys.
I love watching my girlfriend with other guys so if you like this then you can both have fun and i'm sure it will make you stronger.
Have fun