I cant stop thinking of this girl. i would do anything for her.

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I cant stop thinking of this girl! We went out in high school for a month or two and it was great. We would talk for hours and hours on the phone about each other. She eventually broke up with me and I was devastated for a while. I finally got over her but not totally, every time I wouldn't be able to sleep I would start thinking about her for hours and would have the worst feeling in the world because she wasn't with me. I would do anything to make this feeling go away, even drinking until i would pass out. Yeah i know thats pretty pathetic. Well anyways i just recently graduated from high school and hadn't seen her for at least 2 years until i got this job my friend got me and low and behold she works there! Now i can't stop thinking of her and can't sleep for nothing. At work I ignore her, but notice her staring at me and she trys to start conversations and flirt with me. What should I do, I would do anything to be with her, and its not even a sexual attraction to her, I am
head over heels in loVe with her and always have been. What type of aproach should I take? Should I take it slow or tell her how I feel?

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  • aubreybradt
    14 years ago

    just start talking to her? why the fuck would you avoid her now that you finally have a chance to get her back?

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  • FJK_frm_AK25
    8 years ago

    Wtf tell her how u feel pussy...especially if u think she's into u

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  • seanster12
    12 years ago

    Just flow with it man flow with your heart and yor insticts. You love her don't you... then don't waste your time thinking about her... do something about it take a shot at what you've been feeling man take a vantage of the situation.

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  • treehugga
    14 years ago

    i tnk u shud stay away... der was somethin about u she didnt like ..who says its changed? it'll be so much worse if u go there again nshe breaks ur heart all over again...suffering all over again!!!meet someone else!!!they say the best way 2 get over sum1 is get under sum1 else ..n dis z so true!!! n i bet.. that although u THINK u love dis grl ...its probly just lust!! n if it is i no dis cuz i havent been rejected a lot in d guy field..but dis one guy did reject me n dats d one guy i can never get out of my head... i bet if he didnt reject me i'd never think of him now... me n my m8 had dis conv n she agrees..same thing 4 her 2 bout sum1 who rejected her. b strong. look 4 sum1 else theres so many more ppl out there.. n i no ud always hold it over her head dat she dumped u.. n dats not a gud start 2 a rel8.. n wat if shes not lookin 4 a rel8 ..instead a bit of fun..ull b so much more crushed than b4 then!!! stay away 4rm her dude ur btr than that ur deserve 2b happy n i dnt tnk u will b with her

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  • cool59
    14 years ago

    Talk to her openly and try to understand her intentions. If you think she's just flirting and doesn't feel serious about you, clench your fists and stay away, however hard it is, cause otherwise it will be even harder. But there's a possibility she has thought over her actions and reconsidered. If you find this to be the case, try being with her again...

    But during the conversation don't forget that she might be lying, follow your gut feeling.

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  • xxxstevenzanecarl666xxx
    14 years ago

    Tell her how you feel it will make you feel so much better. and if she rejects to that get a new job and leave

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  • fiat1954
    14 years ago

    Stay Away!Try to find another job.
    She will just end up breaking your heart again.

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    • Balmung
      13 years ago

      oops sorry, didnt mean for it as a reply to your post

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    • Balmung
      13 years ago

      do whatever the fuck you want. you wanna get her? go get her, you dont want to? then get her out of your brain and stay in that job till you feel like you want another job, not avoid her.
      relate to the big picture in your head.

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  • Gfrigo
    13 years ago

    You are a tool....

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