I cant orgasm (male)

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Well Im a 20 year old guy, and I have never actually had an orgasm from having sex. I have yet to meet another guy that has this same problem, although obviously I'm not exactly asking a lot of people. Ive had two gf's, neither of them very long relationships, I've had sex maybe 15 times total, and I can never finish. I'm single now, and unfortunatly I never found a solution to this problem. I don't have any problem getting it up, Ive tried a few different positions, really made no diference. I mean it felt good, just not THAT good. I thought maybe I was too nervous, so i got a little drunk thinking it might help...it didnt. Sober wasn't working, Basically after about an hour I just always gave up. All my friends find this problem hilarious. I thought it was wierd at first, considering all my friends have the opposite problem, now its just getting rediculious. Is this normal?

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  • korn3654
    13 years ago

    You have a future in porn

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  • CollegeIsNotAsAwesomeAsIImagin
    11 years ago

    after i turned like 15 i was not able to climax with my gf. One day i got a bit drunk and went home with the neighbor she was a smocking hot 27 year old latina. We had sex, she did this weird thing with her hips i felt like my dick was inside a blender( without the blades) it felt like her vagina was swirling around my cock, it was fascinating. The tension built up and in a little less than five minutes later my cum was dripping all over her sheets. I must have ejaculated like 4 oz no bsing

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  • Sean021021
    13 years ago

    Mine takes too long when Im having sex but not masturbate

    http://isitnormal.com/story/i-want-to-have-sex-with-my-aunt-63475/

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  • Bling24
    13 years ago

    I have it too, and I got so annoyed by it that I saw a doctor and he recommended I look up info on retarded ejaculation. It's not that common, but it's normal.

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  • tomcat1974
    13 years ago

    I used to have the same problem....its just ur nerves. U r used to coming with tour own hand and its easier. When u r with another person u get nervous and can't cum and u go home and finsh right. Stop masturbating for about 3weeks before u have sex and I guarantee u thatbu will finish with a real live woman. Really that's it. Stop masturbating so much and focus on a vagina its really nice to come in one.

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  • cib2354
    13 years ago

    I have the same problem it's called retarded ejaculation it's some sort of psychological problem but I have over come it by finding a way to cum on demand where I tense my legs while doing it don't worry it's perfectly normal and if u can find a way to cum only when u want to cum it's awsome as it makes u go on for ages I mean seriously I've been going for 4 hours before

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  • deepthought33
    13 years ago

    My husband doesn't have orgasms when he cums. I know that isn't the same thing, but it is still frustrating.

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