I cant move on !!!

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Me and my ex boyfriend have been broking up for a few months now, And at first i was so sad becasue he was everything too me he was my bestfriend i could tell him everything, I tell all my friends that im over him becasue they all hate him and they would hate me if i went back out with him, he has a new girlfriend and i hate her even though i dont no her i hate her becasue she has everything i havent. i have tryed 3 times to get to no other boys but i dont feel right with them i feel like im cheating even though i dont have a boyfriend i cry all the time over him becasue im in love with him i just want him to no how i feel but at the same time i want to get over him and move on and stop holding my life on the this edge of sadness i want to tell him im sorry. i have also tryed to move on i deleted eevrything to do with him and nothing has worked im just waiting for the day that all our memories fade from my mind what should i do im in love but i hate him at the same time ? i cant get over him ?

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  • alone4679
    14 years ago

    I have that same problem that u have but i have been trying to get her out of my mind for the past 3 years and i have yet to forget about her... but i cant im stuck like u

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    You are having a wrenching & heart breaking experience and must have cared about this guy a lot.

    I think you are smart not contacting him and keeping your regrets, hopes & yearnings for him to yourself. Similarly it is way to early to start dating. Either way you don't need more on your plate emotionally.

    I agree with others - cry, rant, whatever - in time you'll be ready to let it go and move on. You do need to give yourself time. And treat yourself nicely.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Know how that is
    Didn't get over a guy for about 9 months
    Cry it out, just try to move on, you gotta let go of the last peices your keeping with you
    Time will heal you =]
    And like someone else said, keep yourself busy
    helps WAY MORE than im sure you realize

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  • Peppercat
    14 years ago

    Your weak and vunerable, as we all are after serious relationships, and yes it hurts. Thats all part of it. Our experiances seem very similar. Deleting all things tht remind us of them etc. But u need to keep going out with your friends, and understand that your better off without him. it helps, it really does. Getting a new best friend also does wonders with healing, and them being a shoulder to cry on makes a stronger relationship with them than even your exbf ever was.

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  • lovenug
    15 years ago

    Time heals the heart but in the meantime you have to keep yourself busy with activities and hanging out with friends and meeting new people. If you still need closure, write all your feelings down in a letter and you can either keep it or throw it away but it helps to let it all out.

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  • tornwithin
    15 years ago

    welcome to relationships.. its sucks for a long long time and u hate them but love them and want to just get back to being happy with them but the truth is u gota let go and let him live his life hes moved on itll only make things worse telling him how u feel, and TRUST me if ur friends hate him its NOT worth it.. i dated a guy on and off for 2 years who my friends hated but i told them i gota be with him so they wouldnt hang out anymore and i finally realized how stupid i was. just cry it all out and when ur ready ull be able to flirt with guys again and have fun like before

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