I cant find the courage to tell this girl i love her

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ok ever since 1st grade i don't like to hang out with people(mostly girls) and that made me very unsocial. Now all i do is stay by myself to think, yesterday i found out that a girl from my past is in my school. But i cant think of a way to tell her i love her, or even ask her if she wants to come to the movies. Today i felt like she doesn't remember who i am.

-Is it normal to want her so much?-

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Based on 45 votes (42 yes)
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  • zippay2
    13 years ago

    thank you all so much, we are dating now.
    i love all of you, you helped me even though u dont know me.

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  • zenji
    12 years ago

    You're an intense person, not a bad thing. Just be casual, and help her remember you, bringing up old scenarios from the past, then, work from there.

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  • jean
    13 years ago

    Confidence man, just confidence. But don't get too cocky

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  • yumichu
    14 years ago

    when you love someone, you love unconditionaly, even the flaws, you know? Maybe you arent in love with her... maybe you are falling in love with her. that may be easier to say.

    "I thhink I am failing in love with you..."

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  • Jen118584
    14 years ago

    "Love" is a strong word. You are more fascinated with the idea of her at this point. It's normal to feel this way, but whatever you do, don't come out and tell someone you barely know that you love her. That's a little intimidating.

    Also, I hate to say this but unless she is of a similar mind, she may not be very anxious to hang out with someone that is severely antisocial. You may want to consider finding a hobby, or finding out what her hobbies are, and getting yourself out there more. That way you have something more to offer her and you'll be more comfortable hanging out with her friends.

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    • zippay2
      14 years ago

      thank you, ill remember this

      -life is a stage you can reach up and grasp your destiny or have it crumble beneath your feet.-

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