I cant figure out if i'm bi..

Only church will fix your problem.

i think you let your ex get inside your head and now you are questioning yourself and doubting your own judgment of yourself. a fantasy is just a fantasy, its not the real thing. people cannot control what pops in our minds. for example, if a guy can really pull off the whole shemale look, looking like a real woman, yeah, i get turned on. even fantasize a bit. but i'd never do it for real. i like women too much. plus, i don't like dick. there be no present nor future being with the same sex even if he looked like a convincing woman. and a dream is only a dream. lets say if you was bi, what does it matter? people will still think what they want about you regardless of who you are and what you like. and then there are those people who will accept you for you. if people you once knew and were friends with, or had a gf after gf, after gf learning this and leaving you alone, and it bothering you making you doubt yourself and everything the only person letting you down is yourself. life has more freedom when you don't let others opinions trouble you. just take things like a corny joke that means nothing more than a fart in the wind. or turn it in to a want, and feed on the negative opinions of only becoming stronger. eventually everything will become laughable. i have a foot fetish that goes both ways. but i lean towards women way more. but i have a collection of video clips on my computer, tons more females, only a few guys. but whatever, its my dirty little secret. i find it sometimes it works better when you don't want it. that sense of being forced to do the deed on someone you don't want to do it with can sometimes give an extra kick. sorry if i got too informal. but you had to know you shouldn't question yourself or let others get in your head, and that if its really the case that you are bi, so what? you know what you want. you'll know better when you stop doubting yourself.

At the age of 5 we should all know what we like.

Nobody is 100% straight, they all have a bit of gay in them.

Now you're into trannies, huh?

Some straight men are into pegging. No one else can decide your orientation. I don't even like labels though. It locks you in when your sexuality and desires are constantly changing.

google two things; "futanari" and "pegging" see ya in a week ;)

Um, you are gay? Where's that option ?

does it matter who u love? what if the musics playing and u see them cross a crowded dance flooor. gee the misic's loud, it's throbbing,.,,, oh i see ..bye lol bi

Lots of guys have strap on fantasies. You're straight.

I just like being sure of these things. And not being confused..

But thank you, DarQness and incomplet.

What's with the need to label yourself? The closest I can think of is that you're into "futanari". If you don't want to do it with a guy, you probably aren't bi.