I cant cum unless i use my vibrator

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My boyfriend is finding it very offensive that i cant cum while having sex, him licking me out, or rubbing my cl*t i can only cum when i rest my vibrator on my cl*t is this normal???

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  • Sxv123
    14 years ago

    you cant cum unless u hit the "g spot"
    directions
    1 into vagina
    2 up
    3 to the front
    4 cum

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  • Sunkissed82
    12 years ago

    Stop using the vibrator for a while some feeling will return in your clit.I seem to be having the same problem.

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  • cooldavid
    13 years ago

    Try sticking a vibe in your ass while he fucks you... then have him rub your clit with his hand. It will feel good for everyone.

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  • danjay
    13 years ago

    Xanadu has a great answer. Younger girls find it harder to orgasm and need more training about what actually gets them going. Best if this is done by your bf too as it is great fun. Give yourself time - let him stay part clothed to keep him at bay - allow up to an hour to get really worked up and find your erogenous zones - ears; feet; nipples etc. all girsl react differently

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  • queenbitxh
    13 years ago

    i have the same problem.

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  • Xanadu
    15 years ago

    You should be able to get off in various ways. But it's easy to get acclimated to the vibrator, making it difficult to get off via other means. Let your boyfriend know that you want HIS cock inside you. That you want to be with him. The vibrator is a tool. Let him use it on you so that he's involved in the process. Then tell him how well he handled the vibrator. If he doesn't handle it well, give him suggestions and thank him for making you feel good. With the right outlook and the right encouragement, most guys would be able to enjoy you enjoying the vibrator when they are in control of it, (and subsequently, the vibrator).

    Also, I don't know how old you are; but it has been my experience that most women tend to cum easier as they enter their 30's. If you're younger than mid-30s, then the need for the vibrator may not always be there.

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  • love3420
    15 years ago

    Awww, It's ok i always think that about my boyfriend.
    just remember deep inside he loves you, if you guys have a good relationship.
    DO NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM JUST BEACUSE YOU THINK THAT, it will lead to depression for you and him..

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  • [Old Memory]
    15 years ago

    Not really but it could happen I suppose try some different techniques of licking and stuff maybe you just need a lot to get off. get your BF to use the vibrater on you

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