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I'm 18 years old boy,and love a 17 years old girl.I know her since I was 3 years old,but I can't tell her how I feel about her.our parents always joking that we should get married,but she tells that she consider me as a brother.what should I do and how to know if she likes me or not?
If you have been "friend zoned" its pretty much no mans land to get out of, not to mention impossible to do.
If she has taken it one step further in referring to you as a "brother" then you are pretty much dead in the water. Especially considering you have know each other for what? 15+ yrs?
If you have to do it just to find out then you gotta do what you gotta do, but I would bet there is at least a 90% chance you wont like the response/results you get.
Girls dont mention thinking of someone as a "brother" unless there is little to no sexual attraction to that particular person.
I don't know if you should do what Mando said because I'm a girl that use to have a guyfriend that I said was like my brother, which he was before he showed his true self. It drove me insane because I knew he tried to manipulate me to like him more or just to get me in bed with him. Trust me I don't know if it would be a good idea to tell her your feelings.
I would say move on and maybe she'll start to show more signs of liking you in the future but like I said.
Although you are a completely different person too. My guyfriend was just a a**hole, so thats why we aren't friends anymore. Plus he just started to show his true self when I lived with him last year after knowing him for about 2 years because he was my roomie here at college with two other girls.
she likes you as a BROTHER. that's not good when it comes to sexual attraction usually. Also, "telling a girl how you feel" is typically a bad idea early in the game.
Rather than telling her how you feel, demonstrate that you are a confident, fun guy and she will naturally become attracted to you.
Not early in the game if they've known eachother for since she was 2 years old.
Just sayin'.
Anyways, seems to me like your only route out of the friend zone is to tell her. Mando is right.
Hey Dom, in another post you said Dappled left a short while ago, when did this happen? and is he like gone gone like RandomJelly : /
Well his number has disappeared, meaning his profile has been deleted. Basically, if he ever comes back he will have to make a new user.
This happened around 2 weeks ago. SassyFrassyLassie came back, then she and dappled both confessed secret crushes on eachother. It was jolly exciting, and I think they started emailing. A few days later dappled suddenly disappeared. SFL said that she thought she had messed up or something, and that was why dappled left. At least, that is what I believe the story is. It is actually quite sad.
I don't think he is coming back any time soon.
It all goes down on a story that I'll link. Quite a few of the original posts in the convo have been deleted, but you can get the jist of it.
<a href="http://isitnormal.com/poll/are-you-okay-with-hazing-6318/" rel="nofollow">http://isitnormal.com/poll/are-you-okay-with-ha...</a>
I wouldn't normally go into detail about someone else's personal life (privavcy and all that jazz), but as it is all out there any way I don't see the harm in posting the link and my interpretations.
Hey Dom, thanks for the link. Talk about an emotional rollercoaster. I was super happy for Dappled and SassieFrassieLassie and then devastated when I had finished. Poor SassieFrassieLassie :( Well now, I have to hunt Dappled down, any idea where I could start? Email, name, fb or anything? :)
In fact, you didn't piss me off at first, but now you do. Please, you (idiot internet troll with the emotional maturity of a 10 year old) tell me (metrosexual with large feminine side) how the female mind works. I mean, obviously you must know so much more about women than me. The fact that you get laid (so you claim and I doubt) so easily proves that you must be a fountain of motherfucking knowledge. *I case you can't tell, my tone of voice is literally dripping with sarcasm. Mind you, you are probably such an idiot that you don't even know what that means*
You, sir, are an arrogant, ignorant, pig-headed arsehole who should get the fuck off the internet.
I know I'm feeding the troll, but you really can be a tosser sometimes.
I know how you know how you know how I don't know how I know that... dammit.