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My boyfriend of three years is head over heels for me and I feel that he likes me more than I ever can like him or anybody. I can not stop thinking about other men, cheated on him three times so far and when we make love all I can think about is hooking up with some random guys in the bar and that turns me on.
You are getting off on the power you have over your boyfriend. You know he worships you but you repay his love with contempt. Instead of doing the right thing and ending the relationship, you keep him around for the security and boost to your ego but you are using him like a piece of toilet paper. For this you should be ashamed of yourself. You are hurting someone who loves you and you don't seem to care. There is a name for people like you. Sociopath. You need help.
Tell him you cheated on him three times, end the relationship and go be the slut you are. Fucking whore. You shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone, just go and have random sex with other guys because this is what you obviously want. If you care about him at all you will tell him and end the relationship. But then again if you cared about him at all you would have never cheated on him now would you...
Your my kind of woman, just as long as your not my girlfriend, your a bar hoppers dream.
i bet if u werent with bf ,u wouldnt have the thorts of others etc,are u game to find out,let him go
I am with alice1122 and other supporters. I totally get it and am in a similar situation. Don't listen to name callers, and stupid ideas like prostitution... Dumb arses! Don't ever tell him (or anyone)... Never, ever, ever!!!! And stay discreet and safe. Get an app for your phone that enables you to SMS a friend your location just in case you don't feel safe. xx
Ive been in your position. I say normal. You should break up with him without a doubt. If the single life makes you happier then I think you should pursue that. Im guessing you are ment for someone else in the long run. You'll meet someone you will hopefully never cheat on, but instead of living a lie you should do yourself and your partner a favor and break up. I have recently broken up with my partner of 4 years. In the last year of our relationship I couldn't stop thinking about other men. I cheated twice and as cold as it is I didn't feel guilty which was not a good sign. Now im single, meeting new men and so far im having a great time. Who knows whether I will come to a point where I actually regret my decision and want him back... but I'll have to find out the hard way. I cheated on him and that made me lyer and not a good person, so he is free to find someone he deserves more then me. Simple as that.
wahh dont worry your not a slut i know your kind. The truth is that girls need some drama and they want the man to be a slitly harsh on them. Some girls even NEED a heck of an arse hole to be happy. But good men think its bad to be harsh on the girl and all macho. Girls need a good men at heart who acts like hes the man at home(act). Not a servant. I recomend some dominance foreplay. It actualy does alot for all couples. LOTS OF FUN =))
dont listen to these people putting you down
your just a woman with a mans sex drive now you know how we feel because men need lots-O-sex because sex is awesome which is how you seem to be i suggest getting a f*ckbuddy to avoid deseases
or maybe your just a sex addict
or maybe hes just not satisfying you
Perfectly normal. Been married for 7 years and slept with lots and lots of other women. I only love my wife and it is just sex with the others. I am very loving and tender to my wife after I sleep with other women. Do it I say.
I understand your feelings, I am living a similar experience, don't believed others that had never experienced similar experiences, I have to tell you that if your man never finds out, you are not hurting anybody, many women do the same but few are brave enough to tell, just be discrete and enjoy your sex life, hope we can chat about this especial situation.
Seriously let the poor guy go i had an ex gf do the same thing string me along for two years i have wasted two years of life giving her my all and for nothing im lonely left my friends for her and all for her to cheat on my twice bull just save the guy that loves you if you cant save yourself
You need to have a talk with him. If you do not think you can stop then you may want so toy around with the idea of a cuckold relationship with him. If he is not interested then best if you just break up.
Hmm.. Lets see. Break up with him. And then have real relationships when you grow up and settle down. And stop being a sl*t.
Gently let him go - continuing will just be very hurtful re: the deceit & eventual discovery. Your promiscuity & fantasies may be due to feeling trapped in this relationship - who knows?
There's 3 options I can think of:
1. Break up with him.
2. Suggest swinging to him.
3. Become a hooker and make lots of $$$!
1 is probably the best option but 3 is my personal favourite.
Well, I don't know if that is normal or not but that's how my ex was. I was really into her but she just wasn't into me in the same way. Do him a favor and break it off instead of stringing him along. In the long run he will appreciate it more than if you let it continue.