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This man has all the attributes of God. He took care of my daughter and I have pictures of him watching cartoons with her. I want to marry him so bad I could die!
Take your time sweetie, get to know him better, and make sure he's not a pedobear. I certainly hope for you and your kid's sake he's all that and a bag of chips, but look before you leap. I do think it's understandable that you'd really dig someone who looks like he'd make a good daddy for your child.
What you are feeling is both normal and natural, though there are some harsh realities about your circumstances. It may do no good to write these out, but it may explain your strong desire for marriage.
The single mother is the most desperate and helpless an adult could ever be, that isn't maimed or scarred or otherwise disabled. You are not in a position of strength, regardless of how you've come to lose the commitment of your kid's father. To love you is to commit so much for the privilege of raising another man's child.
If you come across such a man, who is good-hearted and hard-working, you don't have the luxury to wait or fuss about. By all means try to marry him and lock him into a commitment. But don't even pretend he is a lucky man—you are a lucky woman.
Guess what. Humans need two parents. Co-parenting is not easy. Accommodate this guys parenting style and see where it goes. You are star struck. You will have to turn your desperation into teamwork.
Awe that is so sweet and cute for man to watch cartoons with a baby awe i want cry i got daddy fever