I can't stand my mom

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I know this is a horribly cliche thing to say, but after much thought I've decided that I hate my mom.
She is always on my case, she's selfish, she's a hypocrite, she doesn't even try to understand me, and she's a drama queen.
My mom always tells me that I'm a selfish b**ch, and she's threatened to move and leave me here or kick me out of the house. I don't think that i am a horrible person or daughter, but whenever i don't have my chores done RIGHT when she tells me to she gets really angry. She tells me to do everything in my life and i have almost no control. I even see therapy now because of her and my therapist tells her ideas to make everything work better but she ignores her and tells me to stop seeing her because she things I'M not improving. I can't wait to get out of here.

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  • precious13
    14 years ago

    THAT IS TOTALLY NORMAL BCUZ 2 B REAL IFEEL THE SAME WAY BOUT MINES BUT CHA NO WE JUS HAVE 2 DEAL WIT IT SOMETIMES.

    *HANG N THERE*

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  • Bratina8
    7 years ago

    I'm so sorry honey. You know this is not typical behavior for a mother. I am a mother and the things you're saying your mom says and does breaks my heart and makes me want to adopt you. I don't understand why people send kids to "therapy" to fix them when the bottom line is the problem is with the parents. These days I'm like a crazy person because I married my now husband of 16 years, had two kids after marriage, and that's been our life. No affairs, no stepkids, no divorce. I almost feel like a freak in today's society. I have two of the best boys and a wonderful husband. I allow my boys to talk about everything with me. The don't drink, have sex, or cuss unless asked for permission. That one cracks me up so I usually say go for it and tell me exactly how you feel! I'm sorry for your moms stupidity and total abuse to you. I really have a hard time believing what parents get away with doing to their kids these days. Our neighbors have real issues and when I let both "abused and neglected" kids hang at our house every day, it was great for them. Well dip shit mom figures out they want to actually move in with me and freaks. We haven't seen those prescious teenagers in two months. Breaks my heart. I wish you the best. All I know is u want to be 18!!

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    You mom sucked me off so I can't dislike her no matter what you say.

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  • joseph214510
    12 years ago

    my mom is a fucking no good bitch. never does anything. yells over every little thing. nobody in my family like her. mostly me and my brother. i cant stand her. when im in the same room with room with her she make me want to GAG.she pretends shes poor so annoying stupid. make my skin crawl. she make me want to break something and i do.shes more lazy than a really fat person who had a stroke and blind.

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  • fraseram
    13 years ago

    I am a 33 yr old mom of four yr old girl.
    I love my girl with all my heart and would do anything in my power to keep her safe. My goal as a mom is for her to look back and feel loved and nurtured
    I am not perfect though and will get frustrated or angry even have yelled ( not at her directly ) infront of her
    My fear is that she will grow up and hate me;( I know families will fight and not always get along but do really hate ??? Look in your heart and find your love too.
    We don't always like those we love but don't loose sight

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  • honeybeee
    13 years ago

    Haha cha

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  • silly_person
    14 years ago

    i hate my progenitor too. for the last three years i have been working after classes and on weekends to earn money to pay for my driver's license. i live alone with her, and i never ask her for money. two weeks ago i left my job because i have more than enough money..my progenitor went to the bank and took all my money away. i hate her too. dont let your progenitor convince you to leave therapy, try to plan with your therapist a way to keep yourself together and leave as soon as you can!

    and lets start a hate-your-mama club.

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  • DrQuinnMedicineWoman
    14 years ago

    This behaviour from your mom isn't normal. And it just makes me realize how blessed i am to love my parents the way i do. Some people just weren't fit to be parents. Your mom is one of them. She obviously sounds like she won't change and thinks she doesn't need to change. So you, need to escape adn move out as soon as you can. maybe get a family member on your side, aka live with an aunty or gramma who sympathizes.

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