I can't orgasm during phone sex

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Hey! I'm a 19 year old female. My boyfriend and I had phone sex for the first time and even though I masturbate and can orgasm nice and easy when I'm by myself, I couldn't have one when we had phone sex. (He did hit it though).
I'm just wondering what could possibly be the reason for this. I'm just shocked/surprised cuz I never had any trouble with orgasms.
Any type of 'help' would be much appreciated. Thank you!

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  • Ericharris
    6 years ago

    I used to have phone sex with a long distance boyfriend a lot. I honestly didn't even like doing it but he got horny so easily and it really sucked. I'd usually touch my self before we called or during our conversation before we started so I had a head start and could orgasm faster. Even with that, it was awkward. I don't like dirty talk on the phone, i think it's way too awkward, I could only do it in person. So it would be pretty quiet with some moaning here and there.

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  • howaboutthat
    7 years ago

    maybe performance anxiety? i had a lot of trouble the first time i did this with my bf and i got super nervous every time i was about to orgasm and it just wouldn't happen. not sure! maybe close your eyes and just pretend he's there with you? that works for me most times

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    • MeatPopsicle
      7 years ago

      Hey thanks for writing! How long did it take you before you could finally orgasm? I did close my eyes and I was really turned on and everything but I just couldn't have an orgasm it was the weirdest thing ever

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      • howaboutthat
        7 years ago

        i ended up doing it the first time we tried it but it did take me like triple the time it would have taken me if i was by myself. he was really patient with me and really tried to keep me in the mood and everything. i'm not sure what to suggest? maybe just keep trying lol

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