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Ok, i'm a girl, and i always masturbate when i am horny, however, i can never reach climax! I've tried vibrators directly to the clitoris, G-Spot stimulation and most methods you can find on the internet, however , no matter what i do, i can NEVER climax. It leaves me very frustrated. iin?
I am no expert, however I can tell you this. Reaching sexual orgasm is a physical, emotional, and mental thing. Now, that sounds complicated, but it doesn't have to be as complicated as it sounds.
It seems to me that you might have the physical aspect down, but as far as the other two, you didn't mention. What I mean by emotional is whether or not you're feeling sad, stressed, or otherwise uncomfortable while you're masturbating. If this is the case, orgasm would be pretty difficult to occur. When I say mental, I'm mainly referring to the "mood" you feel while you're physically stimulating yourself. Are you truly into it? Do you have some sort of a psychological high as well?
I don't doubt that some people can reach climax just from a physical feeling alone, but for most people, a combination between all of them is probably the way to go. You hear all about "loss of libido" or sex drive and that DEFINITELY affects ability to orgasm. If your mind is not in it, you'll, as I said, probably have a difficult time.
From personal experience, I had the same problem until I found the chemistry for me.
I'd suggest letting things naturally occur. First of all, desperation is the WORST way to go about this because you'll be frustrated and stressed and it probably WON'T happen. Experiment with your body -- take things slowly and see what feels amazing to you. Use your imagination and close your eyes.
There's no rush to orgasm and you shouldn't feel stressed if you can't just yet. It should come naturally and should be worked up to. Take things slowly, fantasize, and just focus on how it feels, closing your eyes and getting yourself into a sexual mood whenever you feel the urge to masturbate (which should not be forced either).
I hope all of that helped! Don't worry, though. You're not alone in these kinds of things. It's an issue for a lot of people. So, don't feel uneasy or insecure about it. I'm sure you'll find what feels best for you, in your mind and running through your body~ Have an awesome day =]
Maybe you haven't found the proper arousing thoughts/porn to masturbate to!
What sort of things have you tried to get aroused to?
There is NO limits when it comes to masturbation!