I can't make up my mind in what girls i want.

This has got me thinking for a good while. I can't make up my mind in what kind of girl I want. I know that I like pretty lips and sexy eyes plus a nice booty. And I know I'm not in whiny preppies that use 'like' in every sentence they make.

But I don't know exactly what girls I want. I like very tall girls but I also like very short girls. I like pale-white skinned girls with black/red hair but I also like darker skinned girls with exotic features. I like those with peaceful personalities but I also like psychos. Green eyes tend to be very favorable but most girls I find attractive have brown eyes.

When someone tells me to picture a perfect girl, I have 4 different types in my mind and not just one. I fear that this will cause me to cheat on people in the future.

Am I just exaggerating things or is this pretty common?

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  • SomeRandomPerson

    It's good not to be picky on your exact dream girl.

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  • conebread

    What you need to remember is that you don't have to necessarily have a 'type'. When it comes right down to it, physical traits aren't what ends up being nearly as important as the emotional relationship and the chemistry that you share with another person.

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  • Actually you seem pretty open on the physical attributes - and may want to consider the personal/interpersonal.

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    • dalmationUntoyourSoul

      fuck that shit. i gots folks to chat with.

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  • tallgrl723

    It sounds like you are maybe a horny 16 year old... Am I right?

    Haha, just look past the physical, look deeper inside at the woman within. Beauty is only skin deep... what about the connection that you could make with her spiritually? What about personality traits and talents that you find appealing in a girl? Hard-worker, career-motivated, nurturing, good conversationalist?

    This is why it sounds like you are a 16 year old boy, no offense. Dig a little deeper and hopefully you'll find what you're seeking.

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    • Sin_Alucard

      Why should my age matter? And personality isn't going to mean shit if the girl is uglier than the stuff my cat craps out in his litter box.

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  • ComboBreaker

    Over time you'll knock some qualitys off your list. Dont think it will cause you to cheat. If you like the girl you're with then you wont be able to... hopefuly.

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  • Extremist

    Sounds like u favor all types of girls.. U mine as well date them all like a player or a pimp would do!!!

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    I have the same problem (apart from the fear of cheating, I don't cheat) But both types you named drive me absolutely crazy! I think I could be happy with either type honestly! Although I prefer short over tall every time!

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  • lanceosm

    You like emo chicks or hardcore

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  • wildfirex

    Haha, alright, so type's aren't exactly legitimate. That's exactly how I am, though I have a strong preference in a certain area. There's nothing wrong with you, you just don't know what you want yet. Keeping your options open is good. I'm more into white guys, no racism intended, and I'm black/russian/native american/irish. So I'm quite a mix. Certain people just have different likes. There's actually a positive thing to you keeping an open mind. :)

    I mean there is possibility that you MAY be a BIT of a heart-breaker, because you may get bored with what you have, but if your love and lust for the person over-comes your different cravings and wants, you'll be chill.

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  • littleblackfox

    You will eventually find out what it is that you want but for right now just experiment and go with what turns you on. Whatever you do don't cheat. If eventually you find out that a girl your going out with isn't what you expected or isn't what she was at first then explain this to her and tell her you have to move on. Yes it will break her heart but in life you learn to move on and that things aren't always as they seem.

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  • Ferrarifan

    I am Jewish so STFU oh and by the way what I do is jerk off to the girls with certain qualities and if I can't get hard I know I don't like that feature. Personality is great to consider but keep in mind you can't DO a personality

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  • BOYracer88

    i personally, have a preference for skinhead girls in hitler costumes with tatoos on their face mmmmm

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  • screaminasian

    it's normal to appreciate different types of beauty.

    i also like different styles of art

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  • HellAndHighWater

    Not everyone has a specific "type" in mind. It's good that you're open minded.

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  • mtnw

    you may always find those features attractive, or you may change your mind. that's ok, i think everyone can make a list up of features they prefer. i doubt it will make you cheat either.

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