I can't function around her...

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So, I have a roommate but I hate being around her. She doesn't really do anything either, I just don't like people.

Whenever she's at work, I'm fine and I go about my daily activities, being productive, maybe do some cleaning and cooking.

But when she's here, I just stay in my room. Like, I don't want to be anywhere in the apartment while she's here. And I absolutely HATE when she has the day off of work, that means I have to stay I'm my room ALL day.

That means I won't eat, I won't shower, I won't sit in the living room and watch tv. Nothing. I lose all productivity and functuality.

I just sit I'm my room waiting for her to leave.
Please don't troll, just help or give advice.

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  • Magick
    7 years ago

    I had the same problem... so I moved out in 3 weeks of being there and stayed at my family's place and caught a train to go to uni at 5 in the morning everyday for 1 year until I found an apartment I could afford by myself

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  • Smokey1D
    7 years ago

    You're choosing to stay in your room - so don't blame your roommate. Perhaps you should get out of that room and face it, instead of trying to hide from the problem. Try a step at a time to get out of the room, and go further each time and do something a bit different or you'll get bored and won't grow your experiences. I think you're using the roommate as an excuse. There are clearly other reasons you're staying in your room, and you need to slowly face those fears and conquer them. Just start and don't listen to the voices that say not to. Good luck - you'll be surprised once you start just doing it, how much it will become easier and normal again.

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  • MR.mr
    7 years ago

    why do you have a roommate

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Can't afford to not have one

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