I can't for the life of me work men out. iin?

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So there's a guy... who started speaking to me first. I'm on a dating website so I'm getting to know people and there is a lot of nude photos wanted which is not something I do.
Anyway this really hot guy pops up, it's not tinder but it's a swipe left, right thing and each person gets an ice breaker a day each where you can message someone even if they haven't matched with you and the other person gets to chose whether they reply.
Anyway I hadn't matched with this guy but he messaged me 'how many nude photos have you sent?' I thought here we go another one wanting them, I said 0 and something sarcastic. Turns out he didn't want them and doesn't send them and had a bad experience once and we had a heart to heart and a good laugh it was nice. The next day he didn't reply or the day after so I added him on snapchat as he left his username on his profile. He spoke to me on there asking who I was so I teased him a bit and we spoke with great banter again.
Now I am an awkward person and he did flirt but I think I rejected it without meaning too.. the next day he didn't answer or the day after I said hey etc.. and he ignored so I asked him if he wanted to talk 'I'm just busy with friends' so I left it all weekend he was by the look of his snapchat story.
I sent general snaps but no reply.
I messaged him on the dating app when he was online only read but no reply. And again today I said if you don't wanna talk I'd rather you just say.
But I hate feeling pushy or clingy or annoying by keeping messaging so I get weird... but he should just tell me if he doesn't want too.
I kind of fancy him though we had a great laugh.
Any ideas ?

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  • ERIC-CARTMAN98
    6 years ago

    You've already reached the point of being annoying and clingy. I would stop messaging anyone after a couple of read and unanswered texts. My advice is forget about him and if he comes back good if he doesn't, then you've got your answer.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      He should still say if he doesn't wanna talk :/

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      • BlackCatsAreAwesome
        6 years ago

        He's using typical girl tricks it seems. Ghosting, ignoring, excuses, beating around the bush, sudden blocking etc. Annoying eh?
        Makes me wonder why you'd think you can't figure men out. Hmm

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    It's sort of obvious. He doesn't respond to you because he doesn't want to. You want to talk. He doesn't. You would like to believe that because he is charming, he wants to talk. You are a believer. Stop believing. Start being a social artist. Stop worrying about attractiveness to men. Start realizing that you create social beauty in the way you interact.

    Quit fucking thinking what men see in you counts. Its your world. Color it pretty, color it adventurous, color it excitingly.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Can I not ask him why he isn't replying

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      • McBean
        6 years ago

        Of course not.

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      • Murun
        6 years ago

        He's already told you he's busy with friends.

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  • jtbmetal123
    6 years ago

    Its normal, guys are weird.

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  • Murun
    6 years ago

    If he says he's busy with friends he'll probably be busy with friends.
    If someone messaged me back with "if you don't wanna talk I'd rather you just say" it'd make me wary of them being a bit paranoid.

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  • xfg-48
    6 years ago

    People you meet online aren't real, it's all AI generated.

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  • Diego35LovesHilda29
    6 years ago

    Tell him to hit the road, there are a lot of fish in the sea. Cheers

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  • imadick
    6 years ago

    mayhaps he's more into nude photos than he would like you to know. dude probably just wants to get laid without much bother

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