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An year from now, my girlfriend whom i love more than my life died.
after she was gone .
i tried to be happy.
but i can't
i just want to die.
to live with her.
nothing here is enough to hold me back but still i am living.
i want to die but why am i not dying.
Is that normal and happens often to people?
Is there anything that can be done about this?
Life is absurd
Nothing you do matters in the end
Suicide is absurd
Only thing worth living is the possible experiences you may encounter.
No reason to live? The Ffck all and live with no regrets no responsibilities just take off and live for the moment. Leave everyone behind and see where life takes you.
We know where death takes you and thats no fun
your gf died and i wont lie that is tragic but everone has to move on some day,so you should enjoy life while you can beforeits too late
These things happen for a reason and it is normal that you feel like that. the creator acts in ways that we do not see the reason for but is for our good in the end. she will be happy and you can be happy to. cry out to the Lord for help, compfort, strenght or what ever you feel you need and he will help you even if it is in a way you don't think it should be or not when you think it should be. just keep calling on Him and he will help you but not necessarily in a way you think right.
Please try it and you will be helped
Would she want you to die? Or would she want you to go on living and keep trying to be happy. If I were her and in watching you from "the great beyond" get ready to hang yourself, I would be so PISSED at you.
sorry for your loss, my recommendation would be to do some thing to get your adrenaline going,because when your adrenaline is going you only think about the now,it works for me but don't know if it will work for you tho,every body is diferent
i feel so sad for you but... you cant die to live with some one because you will be dead. but you will go to heaven, though i dont recomend dying.
Make your girlfriend proud and learn to live again. It will take time. You wouldn't want her to commit suicide if the tables were turned.. There's groups of others you can talk to who've been through the same thing, support groups. My sister watched her young son die and it took her a few years before she could smile and mean it.She even moved away for a while. There will always be a place in your heart for her that will never change, but maybe one day you can remember the good and smile and mean it and the pain won't be as bad.. I know she would like that..Times are hard for many, everyone has an issue of some sort it's not who you are, so be careful to not let it consume you. I'm sort of like you in a way but I'm trying to find the little miracles each day that tell me to push on...lots to be thankful for if you look.....it's all we can do.
I'm sure it is normal to feel this way after losing some one that you love, however if you are serious about suicide please speak to some one about it. Your girlfriend would want you to go on with your life and be happy.
cheezer is right,
your GF would want you to live your life, everthing has its role in the world, maybe her role was to show you how beautiful the world could be. Time will pass by, the wounds will heal, the scars will remain to remind you of the pain, she may have left the world, but you know that she walked, smiled, laughed and cried by your side, and thats enough proof the she existed, now its your turn to let the world know the pain you've gone through, don't feel upset, live life with no regrets, thats what every person truly wanted.
im pretty confident your GF wouldnt want to see u like this and she would want u to live your life happily :)
every1 will pass 1 day so u time will come when u are back with the love of ur life .
peace
Yes it is normal to feel this way after loosing a loved one. I think that you should find a grief and loss counselor or therapist. You may be suffering from depression, which is also not abnormal in such circumstances. Dying is not the answer to your problems, your feelings for her were and still are very deep. That deep love has now been combined with a deep longing and sadness. Such strong feelings take TIME to fade and heal. And they WILL heal, most people are stronger than they give themselves credit for.
It is normal to want to be dead. but theres no use in being dead think of all the people who would care for you like family friends. you will find someone else forshure you will so dont think any less of youself dying. i promise you in the near future all will go good :)
I'm so sorry to hear that, and yes it is very normal
you should try doing the best you can and live your life
All you can do now is live your life and see where it takes you
you may have heard this many times, but time helps
I hope you do stay on earth, and learn to be happy again
Hope everything works out
[[and seeking professanal help might be good... or just someone to talk to]]